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Authors: Gary D. McKay, Steven A. Maybell
ISBN-13: 9781886230569, ISBN-10: 1886230560
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Impact Publishers Inc
Date Published: September 2004
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Gary D. McKay

Gary D. McKay, Ph.D. (Tucson, Arizona) is the co-author of twelve books and programs, including HOW YOU FEEL IS UP TO YOU, RAISING RESPECTFUL KIDS IN A RUDE WORLD and SYSTEMATIC TRAINING FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING (STEP), the world's leading parent education program. He is a retired psychologist and a diplomate in Adlerian Psychology (North American Society of Adlerian Psychology -- NASAP) who conducts workshops for his publications in North America and Europe.

Steven A. Maybell, Ph.D. (Kirkland, Washington) is clinical director for Youth Eastside Services in Bellevue, Washington, a therapist in private practice, and a teacher of Adlerian Psychology in training institutes and universities throughout the country. He holds diplomates in Adlerian Psychology (NASAP), Professional Psychotherapy (IABMCP), Clinical Social Work (NASW), and is an Approved Supervisor of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy. Dr. Maybell is a co-author of RAISING RESPECTFUL KIDS IN A RUDE WORLD.

Book Synopsis

Anger and confrontation are part of our lives, like it or not. The key factor in happy families is how they handle anger. This book is all about how to deal effectively with anger in families. A practical manual of helpful aids to handling the inevitable anger that every family experiences. Helps families work on the changes that will result in less anger, more effective expression of the anger you do experience, and a happier and more harmonious family environment.

  • Among the dozens of anger topics covered:
  • How anger develops, why we get angry, and the purposes anger serves in our lives.
  • Strategies to get anger under control quickly.
  • How to change your life so you don't get angry so much.
  • Developing and nurturing encouraging relationships in your life.
  • How to get along better even when you're angry.
  • Techniques for problem solving and family meetings.
  • A tool kit for discipline without anger.
  • A proven approach to couples' intimate communication, including anger.
  • Teaching children how to handle their anger with each other, and with adults.
  • Anger issues related to divorce, single parenting, and stepfamilies.
  • All-too-common problem of domestic violence.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgementsix
Chapter 1One Big Happy Family...or Is It?1
Chapter 2The Anatomy of Anger11
Chapter 3Anger Management Strategies I - First Steps27
Chapter 4Anger Management Strategies II - For the Long Term36
Chapter 5Five Steps to Less Anger in Your Life49
Chapter 6Encouraging Relationships62
Chapter 7Healthy Communication86
Chapter 8Problem Solving & Conflict Resolution113
Chapter 9Family and Couple Meetings131
Chapter 10"All's Fair in Love..."145
Chapter 11Discipline Without Anger164
Chapter 12Children's Choices and Consequences177
Chapter 13When Kids Get Angry196
Chapter 14Anger Management for Kids214
Chapter 15Angry Divorces, Single Parents, Stepfamilies229
Chapter 16When Anger Turns to Violence261
Chapter 17After the Family Storm - and Beyond276
Appendix AFinding a Counseling Professional in Your Community287
Appendix BResources for Family Violence289
Appendix CResources for Effective Parenting291
Appendix DMore Resources293
References295
Index299

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