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Michael Batshaw is a New York State board-certified psychotherapist, practicing in New York City. He graduated from the University of Pennsylvania with honors in Philosophy, completed his Masters of Science in Social Work at Columbia University, and did his post-graduate training at the Gestallt Associates for Psychotherapy. Mr. Batshaw is on the faculty of the New Triad Foundation for Collaborative Arts. He lives with his wife and two children in Manhattan.

Have you found "The One"?

51 Things You Should Know Before Getting Engaged offers the insights and techniques necessary for a successful engagement and marriage.

Michael Batshaw gives you the tools to determine if your partner is the right one for you, and if they are the right one, how to keep it that way.

Some of his advice:

- Beware of the person of your dreams
- Couples who do everything together cannot survive
- Couples that don't argue are in trouble
- Hollywood gets it wrong
- The truth of the moment is not the whole truth