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There Goes the Bride: Making Up Your Mind, Calling It Off and Moving On » (1ST)

Book cover image of There Goes the Bride: Making Up Your Mind, Calling It Off and Moving On by Rachel Safier

Authors: Rachel Safier, Wendy Roberts LCSW
ISBN-13: 9780787967482, ISBN-10: 0787967483
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Wiley, John & Sons, Incorporated
Date Published: March 2003
Edition: 1ST

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Author Biography: Rachel Safier

Rachel Safier is a journalist who has written for magazines, television, and the Web. She broke off her own engagement two weeks before her wedding day and has since become known on the popular wedding Web site theknot.com as the expert on cold feet and broken engagements. She is the founder of the web site theregoesthebride.com.

Wendy Roberts, LCSW, has been counseling adults and adolescents in individual, couple, and family psychotherapy for twenty-five years.

Book Synopsis

Safier, a writer for television and magazines who broke her engagement two weeks before her wedding, walks through the reasons, emotions, and logistics of breaking an engagement and calling off a wedding. Stories from 62 women offer comfort, inspiration, and practical advice, and appendices list organizations for support. Co-author Wendy Roberts is a licensed clinical social worker. There is no subject index. Annotation ©2003 Book News, Inc., Portland, OR

Lori Leibovich

It's about time someone tackled this often-secret subject. 'There Goes the Bride' is long overdue. (Editor and Founder, Indiebride.com)

Table of Contents

Prefaceix
Acknowledgmentsxiii
Meet the Almost Bridesxv
Part 1Making Up Your Mind
Chapter 1Is This Just Cold Feet?3
Chapter 2Premarital Resources25
Part 2Calling It Off
Chapter 3How We Called It Off41
Chapter 4Saying It Out Loud60
Chapter 5Getting Your Money Back (and Dealing with the Ring)71
Chapter 6Why Marry in the First Place?97
Part 3Moving On
Chapter 7Finding Comfort, Finding Strength127
Chapter 8Is It Grief When I Wish He Were Dead? Understanding Grief, Anger, and All the Other Emotions164
Chapter 9Getting More Help: When to See Your Doctor or a Therapist176
Chapter 10New Beginnings191
Epilogue211
Resources
Premarital Counseling215
Find Help Fast219
Breakup Movies223
Songs to Sing at the Top of Your Lungs225
Sayings to Get You Through the Day227
The Almost Brides231
The Almost Brides' Survey235
Notes243
The Authors251

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