Authors: Elaine Meryl Brown, Rhonda Joy McLean, Marsha Haygood, Angela Burt-Murray
ISBN-13: 9780345518484, ISBN-10: 0345518489
Format: Hardcover
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
Date Published: March 2010
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Elaine Meryl Brown is vice president, special markets and Cinemax Group, at HBO. Prior to joining HBO, she was a creative director at Showtime Networks. An Emmy Award–winning writer and the author of the novels Lemon City and Playing by the Rules, she is currently writing a young adult fiction series. She lives in New Jersey.
In this engaging and invaluable “mentor in your pocket,” three dynamic and successful black female executives share their strategies to help all black women, at any level of their careers, play the power game—and win.
Rich with wisdom, this practical gem focuses on the building blocks of true leadership—self-confidence, effective communication, collaboration, and courage—while dealing specifically with stereotypes (avoid the Mammy Trap, and don’t become the Angry Black Woman) and the perils of self-victimization (don’t assume that every challenge occurs because you are black or female).
Some leaders are born, but most leaders are made—and The Little Black Book of Success will show you how to make it to the top, one step at a time.
The authors, all high-level black executives, seek to "support women who do not always have access to coaches, mentors, or the 'Old Boys' Network," and their professional advice is savvy and sensitive to the challenges women of color face in the workplace. They offer self-affirming advice to rev up a career, complete with "MAMAisms"-what the authors describe as aphorisms and "familiar terms, both practical and spiritual, that we grew up with and can draw upon as we travel the road to leadership success." The authors revisit and refresh familiar tips on staying positive, honing skill sets, having a plan of action and following through, networking, and avoiding common workplace dilemmas. They also provide valuable advice on achieving work/life balance and finding guidance, mentorship, and support. Offering sound advice, practical tools, and warm wisdom, this book will help black professional women get and stay on track and maximize their abilities.
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Foreword Angela Burt-Murray xiii
Introduction xvii
1 Always Consider Yourself a VIP 3
2 To Attain Victory, Stay Positive 8
3 Racism Is No Excuse, but It Can Be a Motivator 12
4 Don't Be the Office Mammy 15
5 Use Your Duality to Build Strength 17
6 Acknowledge That There Is a Game and Accept That You Must Play 19
7 What You Have to Say Is Just as Important as What Others Have to Say, So Speak Up 22
8 Aretha Was Right: R-E-S-P-E-C-T 26
9 Listen Up! Understanding What's Said v. What's Meant 28
10 Always Have a Plan of Action and Follow Through 32
11 Don't Let Your Emotions Get the Best of You 35
12 Developing Good Relationships with Co-Workers Has More Benefits Than You Think 39
13 Communicate Clearly in Person and on Paper 41
14 Know Your Value 45
15 To Measure Your Performance, Get Feedback 48
16 Perception: It's Not Only about How You See Yourself 51
17 Seek Guidance and Support 54
18 Surround Yourself with the Right People: You Cannot Survive in Isolation 57
19 Step Outside Your Comfort Zone 59
20 Regardless of Your Position, Learn about Your Department, Your Company, and Your Industry 62
21 Entitlement: Nobody Owes You Anything 64
22 The Values You Were Raised with in Church Aren't Always Valued in Business 69
23 Not Everyone Has to Be Your BFF 73
24 Motivate Others by Playing Up Their Strengths 76
25 Do Not Let Distractions (or a Difficult Boss) Throw You Off Course 80
26 Always Try to Maintain Balance 85
27 The N-Word: Networking 88
28 Change Is Inevitable, So Be Prepared 91
29 Bring Your Brand to the Table: Blend into the Crowd While Still Being Yourself 94
30 You Don't Need to Have All the Answers to Take Advantage of the Opportunities 98
31 What You See Is What You Create 100
32 Use Conflict as an Opportunity to Solve Problems 104
33 Don't Be Defeated by the Madness: Keep Your Sanity 107
34 Know How to Create and Use Power 111
35 No One Leadership Style Fits All: Know When to Mix It Up 116
36 Coaches Are Not Just for Athletes 120
37 Celebrate Your Arrival at the C-Suite 123
38 Maintain Your Seat at the Table: Here's What It Takes 126
39 Seeing the Writing on the Wall 130
40 Reach Back and Bring Others Along 133
Acknowledgments 137