Authors: Brette Sember
ISBN-13: 9781572483736, ISBN-10: 1572483733
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Sourcebooks, Incorporated
Date Published: June 2004
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Brette McWhorter Sember is a former New York state attorney and skilled mediator. She was on the Law Guardian panel in four counties and acted as a volunteer mediator for the Better Business Bureau. Sember is an expert at explaining and simplifying legal concepts. She has written more than 30 books, including File for Divorce in New York, Tenants Rights in New York, Landlords Rights in New York, The Complete Legal Guide to Senior Care, The Complete Credit Repair Kit, The Infertility An
Whether you are thinking about adopting a child or using reproductive treatments to become pregnant, The Complete Adoption and Fertility Legal Guide explains your options, gives you the steps to take to protect your decision and hands you the power to make it happen.
Attorney Sember manages to addressalbeit in a glancing fashionthe major areas of adoption, both legal and emotional. It's all here, from decisions, procedures, and child rearing tips to second-parent, kinship, domestic agency, international, parent-facilitated, single-parent, and gay and lesbian adoptions. Sember also covers fertility options, including insemination, egg and embryo donation, cryopreservation, and other emerging technologies, evaluating each pointedly and accurately. Best of all are the handy one-page charts that weigh the pros and cons of various decisions regarding fertility and adoptions. The appendixes include suggestions, organizations, forms, and contact information for state offices. Highly recommended for all public libraries. Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.
Introduction | xiii | |
Section I | Adoption | |
Chapter 1 | Understanding Adoption | 3 |
Legal Effects | ||
Birth Parents' Rights and Roles | ||
Extended Birth Family | ||
Legal Process | ||
Making the Decision to Adopt | ||
Preparing for the Adoption Rollercoaster | ||
Preparing for the Future | ||
Chapter 2 | Adoption Decisions | 11 |
Open versus Closed Adoption | ||
Domestic versus International Adoption | ||
Agency versus Private Adoption | ||
Finding and Choosing an Agency | ||
Finding and Choosing an Attorney | ||
Facilitators | ||
Affording Adoption | ||
Agency Evaluation Questionaire | ||
Attorney Evaluation Questionaire | ||
Chapter 3 | Adoption Procedures | 31 |
Home Studies | ||
Consent | ||
No Consent Needed | ||
Notice | ||
Timing of Consent | ||
Consent Procedures | ||
Revocation | ||
Adoption Court Procedures | ||
Postplacement | ||
Birth Certificates | ||
Adoption Financial Credits | ||
Family Leave | ||
Insurance and Planning for the Future | ||
Chapter 4 | Second-Parent Adoption | 53 |
Deciding to Adopt a Stepchild | ||
Qualifications to Adopt | ||
Notice or Consent | ||
Preadoption Procedures | ||
Second-Parent Adoption Process | ||
Chapter 5 | Kinship Adoption | 61 |
Types of Kinship Adoptions | ||
Adoption versus Guardianship | ||
Custody versus Adoption | ||
Adoption versus Foster Care | ||
Notice and Consent | ||
Kinship Agreements | ||
Agency Involvement | ||
Court Proceedings | ||
Finalization | ||
Support | ||
Chapter 6 | Domestic Agency Adoption | 69 |
Public Agencies | ||
Agency Liability | ||
Private Agency Adoption | ||
Interstate Issues | ||
Ethnic Concerns | ||
Chapter 7 | International Adoption | 87 |
Choosing an Agency | ||
Choosing a Country | ||
Choosing a Child | ||
Dealing with Paperwork | ||
The Process | ||
Dealing with Immigration | ||
Citizenship | ||
Readoption | ||
Changes in Adoption Law | ||
International Agency Questionaire | ||
Chapter 8 | Parent-Facilitated Adoption | 99 |
Adopting Independently with an Agency | ||
How to Find a Birth Mother | ||
Facilitator | ||
Advertising | ||
Choosing a Birth Mother | ||
Contact with Birth Mother | ||
Payments | ||
Counseling | ||
Waiting for Your Child to be Born | ||
Paperwork | ||
Adjustment Period | ||
Choosing a Facilitator Questionaire | ||
Potential Birth Mother Questionaire | ||
Chapter 9 | Adult Adoption | 115 |
Evaluating the Need for Adult Adoption | ||
Restrictions | ||
Consent | ||
Legal Procedure | ||
Effect of Adult Adoption | ||
Chapter 10 | Single-Parent Adoption | 119 |
Considerations for Single-Parent Adoption | ||
Bias against Single Parents | ||
Home Studies | ||
Laws Governing Single-Parent Adoption | ||
Protecting Your Family | ||
Raising Your Child | ||
Chapter 11 | Gay and Lesbian Adoption | 123 |
Single-Parent Adoption | ||
Second-Parent Adoption | ||
Couple Adoption | ||
International Adoption | ||
Finding Gay-Friendly Adoption Agencies | ||
Raising an Adoptive Child | ||
Chapter 12 | Coping with Adoption | 129 |
Dealing with Reactions to Adoption | ||
Dealing with Others Involved in Your Case | ||
Dealing with the Waiting | ||
Dealing with Doubts | ||
Changing Your Mind | ||
Bonding with an Adopted Child | ||
Dealing with Adoption Disappointments | ||
Chapter 13 | Raising an Adopted Child | 135 |
Celebrating Your Adoption | ||
Breastfeeding an Adopted Infant | ||
Talking to Your Biological Children about Adoption | ||
Raising Biological and Adopted Siblings | ||
Talking to Your Child about His or Her Adoption | ||
Keeping an Adoption a Secret | ||
Cultural Heritage | ||
Medical Issues | ||
Post Adoption Support | ||
Finding Birth Parents | ||
Section II | Assisted Reproduction | |
Chapter 14 | Understanding & Evaluating Reproductive Technologies | 145 |
Understanding Your Condition | ||
What Technology Can Do for You | ||
What Technology Cannot Do for You | ||
Understanding Terminology | ||
Finding Medical Professionals You are Comfortable With | ||
Success Rates | ||
Your Right to ART | ||
Initial Visit | ||
Setting Limits | ||
Privacy | ||
Coping with the Medical and Clinical World | ||
Your Rights as an ART Patient | ||
Making Time for ART | ||
Coping with ART | ||
Weighing Technology against Adoption | ||
Weighing the Use of Donors | ||
Ethical Considerations | ||
Financial Issues | ||
Singles and Assisted Reproduction | ||
HIV and Assisted Reproduction | ||
Being Gay and Using Assisted Reproduction | ||
Dealing with Risks | ||
Fertility Specialist Questionaire | ||
Chapter 15 | Insemination | 165 |
Laws | ||
Types of Sperm Donors | ||
Legal Parents | ||
Future Considerations | ||
Choosing a Sperm Bank Questionaire | ||
Chapter 16 | Egg Donation | 177 |
Finding a Donor | ||
Donation Process | ||
Cost | ||
Agreement | ||
State Laws | ||
Legal Rights | ||
Future Contact with the Donor | ||
Choosing a Clinic Questionaire | ||
Chapter 17 | Embryo Donation | 185 |
Finding a Donor | ||
State Laws | ||
Cost | ||
Agreement | ||
Issues | ||
Privacy | ||
Clinic Evaluation Questionaire | ||
Chapter 18 | Surrogacy | 197 |
Laws Concerning Surrogacy | ||
The Legal Process of Surrogacy | ||
California Procedure | ||
Surrogacy Programs | ||
Finding a Surrogate on Your Own | ||
Surrogacy Agreements | ||
Payment Issues | ||
Insurance Coverage | ||
Problems with Surrogacy | ||
Other Steps to Protect Yourself | ||
Choosing a Surrogacy Program Questionaire | ||
Chapter 19 | Emerging Technologies | 209 |
Nuclear Transfer | ||
In Vitro Maturation | ||
Cytoplasmic Transfer | ||
Cloning | ||
Chapter 20 | Cryopreservation | 215 |
Contract | ||
Cost | ||
Divorce | ||
Death of a Parent | ||
Chapter 21 | Raising an ART Child | 219 |
Explaining Things to Your Child | ||
Coping with Other People | ||
Medical Information | ||
Helping Your Child Locate His or Her Donors or Surrogates | ||
Epilogue | 223 | |
Glossary | 225 | |
Appendix A | Resources | 231 |
Appendix B | State Offices for Adoption Services | 239 |
Appendix C | Forms | 251 |
Index | 279 |