Authors: Betsy Keefer, Keefer, Jayne E. Schooler
ISBN-13: 9780897896917, ISBN-10: 0897896912
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Greenwood Publishing Group, Incorporated
Date Published: July 2000
Edition: (Non-applicable)
BETSY KEEFER is a Training Consultant for the Institute for Human Services in Columbus, Ohio, where she has been instrumental in the development of adoption training curriculum for professionals used nationwide.
JAYNE E. SCHOOLER, an affiliate trainer with the Institute for Human Services and Program Manager for the National Foster Parent Association, has over 20 years of experience in child welfare, first as a foster parent, then as adoptive parent, adoptive professional and educator. She is the author of The Whole Life Adoption Book, (1993) and Searching for a Past (1995).
In this book, Keefer and Schooler demonstrate that even in the most difficult situations foster and adoptive parents must not withhold or distort information about the past.
Preface | ||
Acknowledgments | ||
Ch. 1 | The Power of Secrets on Family Relationships | 1 |
Ch. 2 | Truth or Consequences: A Great Debate | 13 |
Ch. 3 | Just the Facts, Ma'am: Why Do Children Need Them? | 25 |
Ch. 4 | A Fact-Finding Mission: How to Gather What You Need to Know | 37 |
Ch. 5 | Adoption Through a Child's Eyes: Developmental Stages | 53 |
Ch. 6 | Through a Parent's Eyes: Core Issues, Coping Styles, and Communication | 71 |
Ch. 7 | The Ten Commandments of Telling: Principles to Consider | 87 |
Ch. 8 | Sharing the Hard Stuff: The Adoptive Parent's Challenge | 97 |
Ch. 9 | Tools of Communication Between Parents and Children | 115 |
Ch. 10 | Transracial or Transcultural Adoption: Talking About Adoption Within a Minority Family | 137 |
Ch. 11 | Kinship Foster Care and Adoption: Telling the Truth When It's "All in the Family" | 153 |
Ch. 12 | Opening a Closed Adoption for School-Age Children: Questions Most Asked by Parents | 165 |
Ch. 13 | Adolescence - Chronic but Not Terminal: Keeping Lines of Communication Open | 181 |
Ch. 14 | Opening a Closed Adoption - The Teenage Years | 195 |
Ch. 15 | Communicating about Adoption in the Classroom: Teaching the Teachers | 211 |
Epilogue | 223 | |
Bibliography | 225 | |
Index | 229 |