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Authors: Betsy Keefer, Keefer, Jayne E. Schooler
ISBN-13: 9780897896917, ISBN-10: 0897896912
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Greenwood Publishing Group, Incorporated
Date Published: July 2000
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Betsy Keefer

BETSY KEEFER is a Training Consultant for the Institute for Human Services in Columbus, Ohio, where she has been instrumental in the development of adoption training curriculum for professionals used nationwide.

JAYNE E. SCHOOLER, an affiliate trainer with the Institute for Human Services and Program Manager for the National Foster Parent Association, has over 20 years of experience in child welfare, first as a foster parent, then as adoptive parent, adoptive professional and educator. She is the author of The Whole Life Adoption Book, (1993) and Searching for a Past (1995).

Book Synopsis

In this book, Keefer and Schooler demonstrate that even in the most difficult situations foster and adoptive parents must not withhold or distort information about the past.

Table of Contents

Preface
Acknowledgments
Ch. 1The Power of Secrets on Family Relationships1
Ch. 2Truth or Consequences: A Great Debate13
Ch. 3Just the Facts, Ma'am: Why Do Children Need Them?25
Ch. 4A Fact-Finding Mission: How to Gather What You Need to Know37
Ch. 5Adoption Through a Child's Eyes: Developmental Stages53
Ch. 6Through a Parent's Eyes: Core Issues, Coping Styles, and Communication71
Ch. 7The Ten Commandments of Telling: Principles to Consider87
Ch. 8Sharing the Hard Stuff: The Adoptive Parent's Challenge97
Ch. 9Tools of Communication Between Parents and Children115
Ch. 10Transracial or Transcultural Adoption: Talking About Adoption Within a Minority Family137
Ch. 11Kinship Foster Care and Adoption: Telling the Truth When It's "All in the Family"153
Ch. 12Opening a Closed Adoption for School-Age Children: Questions Most Asked by Parents165
Ch. 13Adolescence - Chronic but Not Terminal: Keeping Lines of Communication Open181
Ch. 14Opening a Closed Adoption - The Teenage Years195
Ch. 15Communicating about Adoption in the Classroom: Teaching the Teachers211
Epilogue223
Bibliography225
Index229

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