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Authors: Mary McHugh
ISBN-13: 9781557666079, ISBN-10: 1557666075
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Brookes, Paul H. Publishing Company
Date Published: September 2002
Edition: 1st Edition
About the Author | ||
Foreword | ||
Introduction | ||
Acknowledgments | ||
1 | Childhood | |
1 | Your Needs | 3 |
The Need to Identify with a Parent's Grief | 6 | |
The Need for Attention | 7 | |
The Need to Achieve | 13 | |
The Need for Information | 15 | |
Why Parents Have Difficulty Talking About Disabilities | 19 | |
2 | Your Parents' Marriage | 23 |
Your Family's Problem-Solving Style | 23 | |
Marriages in Trouble | 28 | |
Fathers | 31 | |
3 | Your Feelings and How to Cope with Them | 37 |
Anger | 38 | |
Guilt | 44 | |
Embarrassment | 47 | |
Help for Siblings | 51 | |
4 | How Did You Get That Way? | 59 |
Type and Severity of the Disability | 62 | |
Cystic Fibrosis | 63 | |
Cerebral Palsy | 64 | |
"Invisible" Disabilities | 64 | |
Hearing Impairment | 66 | |
Mental Retardation Requiring Limited Support | 67 | |
Autism Spectrum Disorder | 69 | |
Mental Illness | 70 | |
When the Disability Occurs | 71 | |
Birth Order and Gender | 73 | |
When the Younger Sibling Surpasses the Older | 78 | |
Size of the Family | 79 | |
2 | Adolescence | |
5 | Adolescent Angst | 85 |
Embarrassment with New Friends | 86 | |
Mental Illness | 88 | |
Fitting In | 89 | |
Life Is Unfair | 90 | |
Anger and Frustration | 95 | |
Guilt | 97 | |
Getting Help | 102 | |
Love and Pride | 106 | |
6 | Who Are You? | 113 |
Asking to Be Included in Family Discussions | 113 | |
The Search for Identity | 119 | |
Fear of Abandonment | 121 | |
Peer Pressure | 122 | |
3 | Adulthood | |
7 | Someone to Talk To | 129 |
Deal with Anger | 130 | |
Talk to Someone | 132 | |
SibNet | 138 | |
Friends | 140 | |
8 | Your Relationships | 145 |
Caretakers | 146 | |
Escape Artists | 150 | |
Influence of a Sibling's Disability on Potential Relationships | 152 | |
When Do You Bring up the Disability? | 154 | |
Choosing Friends | 155 | |
Relatives | 157 | |
9 | Your Career | 161 |
Choosing Human Services Work | 162 | |
When the Human Services Field Is Not the Right Choice | 169 | |
10 | Do You Want to Have Children? | 175 |
Prenatal Tests to Detect Disabilities | 177 | |
Deciding Whether to Have Children | 178 | |
11 | Who Will Take Care of Your Sibling? | 183 |
Talk to Your Parents About the Future | 185 | |
Find the Right Lawyer | 187 | |
Determine Living Arrangements | 189 | |
Decide Who Will Care for Your Sibling | 192 | |
Persuade Parents to Let Go | 193 | |
Mental Illness | 195 | |
12 | It Feels Like Love | 205 |
Love and Pride | 210 | |
Bibliography | 223 | |
Resources | 227 | |
Permissions | 231 | |
Index | 233 |