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Special Siblings: Growing up with Someone with a Disability » (1st Edition)

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Authors: Mary McHugh
ISBN-13: 9781557666079, ISBN-10: 1557666075
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Brookes, Paul H. Publishing Company
Date Published: September 2002
Edition: 1st Edition

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Author Biography: Mary McHugh

Book Synopsis

Table of Contents

About the Author
Foreword
Introduction
Acknowledgments
1Childhood
1Your Needs3
The Need to Identify with a Parent's Grief6
The Need for Attention7
The Need to Achieve13
The Need for Information15
Why Parents Have Difficulty Talking About Disabilities19
2Your Parents' Marriage23
Your Family's Problem-Solving Style23
Marriages in Trouble28
Fathers31
3Your Feelings and How to Cope with Them37
Anger38
Guilt44
Embarrassment47
Help for Siblings51
4How Did You Get That Way?59
Type and Severity of the Disability62
Cystic Fibrosis63
Cerebral Palsy64
"Invisible" Disabilities64
Hearing Impairment66
Mental Retardation Requiring Limited Support67
Autism Spectrum Disorder69
Mental Illness70
When the Disability Occurs71
Birth Order and Gender73
When the Younger Sibling Surpasses the Older78
Size of the Family79
2Adolescence
5Adolescent Angst85
Embarrassment with New Friends86
Mental Illness88
Fitting In89
Life Is Unfair90
Anger and Frustration95
Guilt97
Getting Help102
Love and Pride106
6Who Are You?113
Asking to Be Included in Family Discussions113
The Search for Identity119
Fear of Abandonment121
Peer Pressure122
3Adulthood
7Someone to Talk To129
Deal with Anger130
Talk to Someone132
SibNet138
Friends140
8Your Relationships145
Caretakers146
Escape Artists150
Influence of a Sibling's Disability on Potential Relationships152
When Do You Bring up the Disability?154
Choosing Friends155
Relatives157
9Your Career161
Choosing Human Services Work162
When the Human Services Field Is Not the Right Choice169
10Do You Want to Have Children?175
Prenatal Tests to Detect Disabilities177
Deciding Whether to Have Children178
11Who Will Take Care of Your Sibling?183
Talk to Your Parents About the Future185
Find the Right Lawyer187
Determine Living Arrangements189
Decide Who Will Care for Your Sibling192
Persuade Parents to Let Go193
Mental Illness195
12It Feels Like Love205
Love and Pride210
Bibliography223
Resources227
Permissions231
Index233

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