Authors: Mary Pipher
ISBN-13: 9781594481888, ISBN-10: 1594481881
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Penguin Group (USA) Incorporated
Date Published: August 2005
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Mary Pipher, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and author of The Shelter of Each Other: Rebuilding our Families and Another Country: Navigating the Emotional Terrain of our Elders. Awarded the American Psychological Association's Presidential Citation, Pipher speaks across the country to families, mental health professionals, and educators, and has appeared on Today, 20/20, The Charlie Rose Show, PBS Newshour with Jim Lehrer, and National Public Radio's Fresh Air.
The phenomenal #1 New York Times bestseller. More than 1.5 million copies sold. Now available from Riverhead.
This is the groundbreaking work that poses one of the most provocative questions of a generation: Why are American adolescent girls falling prey to depression, eating disorders, suicide attempts, and dangerously low self-esteem? Dr. Pipher posits that it's America's sexist, look-obsessed "girl-poisoning" culture-one in which girls are constantly struggling to find their true selves. In Reviving Ophelia, these girls' uncensored voices are heard from the front lines of adolescence. Personal and painfully honest, this is a compassionate call to arms, offering strategies with which to revive these Ophelias' lost senses of self.
From her work as a psychotherapist for adolescent females, Pipher here posits and persuasively argues her thesis that today's teenaged girls are coming of age in ``a girl-poisoning culture.'' Backed by anecdotal evidence and research findings, she suggests that, despite the advances of feminism, young women continue to be victims of abuse, self-mutilation (e.g., anorexia), consumerism and media pressure to conform to others' ideals. With sympathy and focus she cites case histories to illustrate the struggles required of adolescent girls to maintain a sense of themselves among the mixed messages they receive from society, their schools and, often, their families. Pipher offers concrete suggestions for ways by which girls can build and maintain a strong sense of self, e.g., keeping a diary, observing their social context as an anthropologist might, distinguishing between thoughts and feelings. Pipher is an eloquent advocate. Psychotherapy Book Club selection; BOMC and QPB alternates. (Apr.)
Preface | 11 | |
Ch. 1 | Saplings in the Storm | 17 |
Ch. 2 | Theoretical Issues - For Your Own Good | 29 |
Ch. 3 | Developmental Issues - "I'm Not Waving, I'm Drowning" | 45 |
Ch. 4 | Families - The Root Systems | 74 |
Ch. 5 | Mothers | 101 |
Ch. 6 | Fathers | 115 |
Ch. 7 | Divorce | 131 |
Ch. 8 | Within the Hurricane - Depression | 146 |
Ch. 9 | Worshiping the Gods of Thinness | 166 |
Ch. 10 | Drugs and Alcohol - If Ophelia Were Alive Today | 186 |
Ch. 11 | Sex and Violence | 203 |
Ch. 12 | Then and Now | 232 |
Ch. 13 | What I've Learned from Listening | 248 |
Ch. 14 | Let a Thousand Flowers Bloom | 260 |
Ch. 15 | A Fence at the Top of the Hill | 282 |
Recommended Reading | 295 | |
Index | 297 |