Authors: Phillip C. McGraw
ISBN-13: 9780786885985, ISBN-10: 078688598X
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Hyperion
Date Published: September 2001
Edition: Reprint
Though he first gained notoriety for his frequent, fired-up guest spots on Oprah, Phillip C. McGraw (a.k.a. "Dr. Phil") was able to parlay the talk show queen's admiration into his own show and a series of bestselling books, through which he delivers his unapologetic, no-nonsense advice in a tough but colorful down-home style.
With Life Strategies, Phil McGraw helped hundreds of thousands of people take responsibility for their own actions and break free from self-destructive habits and situations. Now he turns his honest, unflinching eye towards relationships-diagnosing them, repairing them, and maintaining them. This hands-on audio book is for people who realize their relationships is in trouble, but who don't want to give up on it. Dr. McGraw helps get relationships back on track with clear action-oriented steps for reconnecting partners.
Relationship Rescue offers readers the chance for further happiness through meaningful, fulfilling relationships.
McGraw does a wonderful job of examining practical steps that can help to rescue floundering intimate relationships. From the beginning, he acknowledges that only one partner may be inspired to take the action he recommends. He says the core causes of relationship collapse include believing in relationship myths; failing to take personal responsibility for the relationship; and ignoring one's own "core consciousness" (i.e., that which is integral to one's own belief systems). He then helps the listener learn how these blocks can be identified and overcome. McGraw's acknowledged belief in a "Higher Power" might also bring comfort to users who desire a religious basis for healing. The advice itself, however, is mainstream, obviously based on McGraw's broad experience as a counselor, and will almost certainly inspire someone looking for help for a relationship in crisis. Librarians acquiring this program must be aware of limitations that may make it a secondary purchase. First, this tape is meant to be used over an extended period of time. Second, a "relationship test booklet" is included in the package--a small pamphlet that will soon be lost in most libraries. Finally, the author indicates that use of this book alone is enough to save a failing relationship. Most patrons, after reviewing the audiobook, will decide if they want to have their own copy or not. In the meantime, it may offer hope to anyone struggling to make a relationship work.--Kathleen Sullivan, Phoenix P.L. Copyright 2000 Cahners Business Information.\
Acknowledgments | ix | |
Prologue: Get Real: Reconnecting with Your Core | 1 | |
1 | It's Your Time; It's Your Turn | 5 |
2 | Defining the Problem | 23 |
3 | Blowing Up the Myths | 46 |
4 | Eliminating Your Bad Spirit | 76 |
5 | Reclaiming Your Core: The Personal Relationship Values | 112 |
6 | The Formula for Success | 146 |
7 | Reconnecting with Your Partner | 192 |
8 | Fourteen Days of Loving with Honesty | 213 |
9 | Red Alert: Relationships Are Managed, Not Cured | 248 |
10 | The Doctor Is "In" | 266 |
Conclusion: A Personal Letter from Me to You | 295 | |
Appendix | 301 |