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Authors: Barry McCarthy, Emily J. McCarthy, Paul A. Schroeder, Emily McCarthy
ISBN-13: 9780415935517, ISBN-10: 0415935512
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Taylor & Francis, Inc.
Date Published: April 2003
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Barry McCarthy

Barry McCarthy, Ph.D., is a certified sex therapist and Professor of Psychology at American University. He has published extensively on couples and sexuality and given more than a hundred workshops around the world. Emily McCarthy holds a B.S. in Speech Communication from Southern Illinois University. Having worked for years as a speech therapist, she now collaborates with her husband on books that address issues faced by married couples. This is the seventh book he and his wife, Emily, have co-authored on the subject, including Sexual Awareness, which has sold more than 500,000.

Book Synopsis

Is sex more work than play in your marriage? Do you schedule it in like a dentist appointment? Do you make love once a month, twice at the most?

If you answered yes to these questions, you are among the forty million Americans trapped in a low-sex or no-sex marriage.

Now there is help from nationally acclaimed sex and marital experts Barry and Emily McCarthy, who for years have helped couples break down the barriers that have developed between them, and rebuild closeness and longing. Their groundbreaking ten-step program is designed to get sex and intimacy back into these marriages and revitalize relationships. Crafted by years of clinical practice, Rekindling Desire first shows couples how to root out the "poisons" that inhibit sexual desire: shame, guilt, anger, passivity, as well as medical side effects and physical dysfunctions. With sensitivity and tact, the McCarthys then lay out concrete techniques and effective strategies that help couples increase sexual awareness, confront inhibitions, revitalize desire, and integrate intimacy and eroticism.

An exciting new way to spark and sustain desire, Rekindling Desire confronts the secrecy and stigma of low-sex and no-sex marriages, teaching couples how to enjoy a fulfilling, life-long sexual partnership.

Table of Contents

Pt. 1Understanding: The First Step
Ch. 1Why Do Couples Experience a Dead End to Desire?3
Ch. 2Whose Problem Is It - His, Hers, or Ours?19
Ch. 3Turnoffs: Poisons for Sexual Desire35
Ch. 4The New Man: Overcoming Sexual Dysfunction51
Ch. 5Finding Her Voice: Overcoming Female Dysfunction67
Pt. 2Changing
Ch. 6The Second Step: Nurturing Anticipation - Bridges to Sexual Desire87
Ch. 7The Third Step: Feeling Close - Enhancing Intimacy103
Ch. 8The Fourth Step: Let's Play Feely-Touchy - Nondemand Pleasuring117
Ch. 9The Fifth Step: Just Do It - Challenging Inhibitions131
Ch. 10The Sixth Step: Making It Special - Creating Erotic Scenarios147
Pt. 3Preventing Relapse
Ch. 11The Seventh Step: Keeping It Vital - Preventing Relapse163
Ch. 12The Eighth Step: Enhancing the Bond - Intimacy Dates177
Ch. 13The Ninth Step: Lusting for Life - The Erotic Marriage189
Ch. 14The Tenth Step: Your Parents Were Wrong - Valuing Marital Sexuality201
App. 1Choosing a Marital or Sexual Therapist213
App. 2: Books for Further Reading215

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