List Books » Raising Cole: Developing Life's Greatest Relationship, Embracing Life's Greatest Tragedy: A Father's Story
Authors: Marc Pittman, Mark Wangrin
ISBN-13: 9780757302022, ISBN-10: 0757302025
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Health Communications, Incorporated
Date Published: May 2004
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Marc Pittman is the owner of a construction firm in Shreveport, LA where he lives with his wife Annette and his son Chase, a freshman football player at the University of Texas. He dedicates much of his time to speaking locally and nationally about his relationship with his sons.
Mark Wangrin is a senior write at the San Antonio Express-News covering Texas sports. His work has appeared in Sports Illustrated, the New York Times, and many other publications.
"This book is a roadmap for parents seeking to create a lasting relationship that can withstand the storms of life."
-Bestselling Author Max Lucado
Marc Pittman, one of 16 children, is the son of a dirt-poor farmer who remains to this day the only man to ever knock Marc unconscious.
But when he had a son, Marc became the father he had always wanted to have.
When seven-year-old Cole asked him about beer, Marc Pittman put down his can and never drank again. He told his boys everything, and they were honest with him in return. They unburdened their fears; told him their dreams; and even admitted their sins. Despite the fact that his sons were star football players,
they felt no shame in holding their father's hand in public. People told him he was lucky to have the relationship he did with his children, but Marc Pittman knew the truth-it wasn't luck, he worked at it every day.
And then his eldest son, Cole, was killed in a traffic accident on the way to football practice at the University of Texas. This book is the story not just of how Marc Pittman dealt with this tragedy, but of the 21 years he lived with Cole and the lessons he learned about being a good father, a good friend,
and a good man.
"A must read...Marc Pittman crosses the boundary and stigma of the tough guy and shows that while being very tough, you can also be very compassionate. This book will make you appreciate not every hour, but every second you spend with someone you love."
-Mark Gastineau, former Pro Bowl defensive end, New York Jets
Foreword | viii | |
Introduction | ix | |
Part I | ||
1 | Embracing the Pain | 7 |
2 | Learning to Lose | 13 |
3 | Man Was Born to Die | 19 |
4 | Lost Along the Way | 25 |
5 | My Son, My Son, My Son | 31 |
6 | Taketh and Giveth | 39 |
7 | Dead Man's Talk | 49 |
8 | The Bears We Wrestle | 63 |
9 | Learning to Care | 73 |
10 | Love Wars | 80 |
11 | Learning to Let Go | 89 |
12 | Every Child Is Different | 100 |
13 | Learning to Love | 110 |
14 | If You Had Two Final Days | 119 |
15 | Left Behind | 126 |
Part II | ||
16 | "How Many Saturdays?" | 143 |
17 | Tributes | 150 |
18 | God Shows Up | 156 |
19 | "All You Need to Say" | 164 |
20 | Forty-Four for Forty-Four | 170 |
21 | I Love You So Much | 183 |
Acknowledgments | 195 |