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Raising Cole: Developing Life's Greatest Relationship, Embracing Life's Greatest Tragedy: A Father's Story »

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Authors: Marc Pittman, Mark Wangrin
ISBN-13: 9780757302022, ISBN-10: 0757302025
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Health Communications, Incorporated
Date Published: May 2004
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Marc Pittman

Marc Pittman is the owner of a construction firm in Shreveport, LA where he lives with his wife Annette and his son Chase, a freshman football player at the University of Texas. He dedicates much of his time to speaking locally and nationally about his relationship with his sons.

Mark Wangrin is a senior write at the San Antonio Express-News covering Texas sports. His work has appeared in Sports Illustrated, the New York Times, and many other publications.

Book Synopsis

"This book is a roadmap for parents seeking to create a lasting relationship that can withstand the storms of life."

-Bestselling Author Max Lucado

Marc Pittman, one of 16 children, is the son of a dirt-poor farmer who remains to this day the only man to ever knock Marc unconscious.

But when he had a son, Marc became the father he had always wanted to have.
When seven-year-old Cole asked him about beer, Marc Pittman put down his can and never drank again. He told his boys everything, and they were honest with him in return. They unburdened their fears; told him their dreams; and even admitted their sins. Despite the fact that his sons were star football players,
they felt no shame in holding their father's hand in public. People told him he was lucky to have the relationship he did with his children, but Marc Pittman knew the truth-it wasn't luck, he worked at it every day.

And then his eldest son, Cole, was killed in a traffic accident on the way to football practice at the University of Texas. This book is the story not just of how Marc Pittman dealt with this tragedy, but of the 21 years he lived with Cole and the lessons he learned about being a good father, a good friend,
and a good man.

"A must read...Marc Pittman crosses the boundary and stigma of the tough guy and shows that while being very tough, you can also be very compassionate. This book will make you appreciate not every hour, but every second you spend with someone you love."

-Mark Gastineau, former Pro Bowl defensive end, New York Jets

Table of Contents

Forewordviii
Introductionix
Part I
1Embracing the Pain7
2Learning to Lose13
3Man Was Born to Die19
4Lost Along the Way25
5My Son, My Son, My Son31
6Taketh and Giveth39
7Dead Man's Talk49
8The Bears We Wrestle63
9Learning to Care73
10Love Wars80
11Learning to Let Go89
12Every Child Is Different100
13Learning to Love110
14If You Had Two Final Days119
15Left Behind126
Part II
16"How Many Saturdays?"143
17Tributes150
18God Shows Up156
19"All You Need to Say"164
20Forty-Four for Forty-Four170
21I Love You So Much183
Acknowledgments195

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