List Books » Preparing for Life: The Complete Guide for Transitioning to Adulthood for Those with Autism and Asperger's Syndrome
Authors: Jed Baker PH.D., Jed Baker
ISBN-13: 9781932565331, ISBN-10: 1932565337
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Future Horizons, Inc.
Date Published: January 2006
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Jed Baker, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist with over 12 years experience leading theraputic groups with children, adults and families. He is a behavioral consultant for several New Jersey school systems, providing social skills training for students with pervasive developmental disorders and learning disabilities. In addition, he writes, lectures, and provides training throughout the Northeast on social skills training for individuals with Asperger Sydrome and related pervasive developmental disorders.
A bestselling author and counselor offers a comprehensive resource for students on the autism spectrum preparing for life after high school. This handbook focuses on "life skills training" on such subjects as nonverbal cues, body language, dealing with anger, and building and maintaining friendships and intimate relationships. Includes assessment tools for parents and analysis of laws that provide accommodations to adults with disabilities.
Chapter 1 | Asperger's Syndrome, autism spectrum disorders, and the need for life skills training | 1 |
Chapter 2 | The transition process and the law | 7 |
Chapter 3 | Self-awareness and moving beyond denial | 11 |
Chapter 4 | College, Career and Residential Options Beyond High School: What parents can do to prepare their son or daughter (by Rick Blumberg, Ph.D.) | 29 |
Chapter 5 | Assessment of social skill needs | 47 |
Chapter 6 | Skill instruction strategies: Individual, small group, self-instruction | 55 |
Chapter 7 | Generalization of skills | 69 |
Chapter 8 | Training peers to be more accepting of students on the spectrum | 77 |
Chapter 9 | Skill lessons | 89 |
Nonverbal cues/body language | ||
1 | Expressing and reading welcoming versus unwelcoming social cues | 91 |
2 | Interest versus boredom social cues | 94 |
3 | Sarcasm versus genuine expressions | 97 |
4 | Attending to others | 100 |
5 | Respecting personal space and belongings | 103 |
6 | Personal hygiene | 106 |
7 | Dealing with odd motor mannerisms | 110 |
Dealing with anger/frustration | ||
8 | Overview of dealing with anger | 112 |
9 | Identifying triggers to your anger | 115 |
10 | Altering or avoiding the triggers to your anger | 117 |
11 | Better ways to think about and deal with the triggers to your anger | 121 |
12 | Calming yourself when angry | 125 |
13 | Talking versus acting out your feelings | 128 |
14 | Putting it all together: Using the Daily Anger Record | 131 |
Dealing with anxiety | ||
15 | Dealing with anxiety and fear- Understanding the alarm reaction | 136 |
16 | Dealing with unpleasant, intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviors | 140 |
17 | Dealing with social fears | 147 |
18 | Dealing with new feared situations | 153 |
Conversation | ||
19 | Sayings hello's and goodbye's | 165 |
20 | Introductions | 167 |
21 | Politely interrupting | 169 |
22 | Maintaining and joining a conversation | 171 |
23 | Starting conversations with people you know | 175 |
24 | Getting to know someone new | 179 |
25 | Poster: Summary of Starting and Maintaining Conversations | 183 |
26 | Conversation repair strategies | 184 |
27 | Politely changing topics | 188 |
28 | Being sensitive to the listener's interests | 191 |
29 | Politely ending conversations | 194 |
30 | Answering the telephone and taking messages | 196 |
31 | Calling friends on the telephone | 198 |
Building and maintaining friendships (and dealing with roommates) | ||
32 | Where to find friends | 202 |
33 | Don't try too hard too soon | 206 |
34 | Sharing friends | 210 |
35 | Avoiding touchy subjects and insults | 213 |
36 | Complimenting | 217 |
37 | Respecting others' views | 219 |
38 | Don't impose rules on others (minding your own business) | 222 |
39 | Avoid bragging | 224 |
40 | Dealing with peer pressure and avoiding setups | 226 |
41 | Empathic listening | 230 |
42 | Showing caring for others' feelings through supportive statements | 234 |
43 | Deepening relationships-sharing personal information | 237 |
44 | Conflict resolution/Assertiveness | 241 |
45 | Dealing with teasing | 245 |
46 | Showing good sportsmanship | 249 |
47 | Getting attention in positive ways | 251 |
Dating | ||
48 | Where to find a date and how and when to ask someone on a date | 253 |
49 | Asking someone out on a date | 256 |
50 | Reading the signals-when to pursue a romantic relationship | 259 |
51 | Sexual harassment | 262 |
52 | Do's and Don'ts on a date | 264 |
53 | Communicating clearly to meet each other's needs | 266 |
Dealing with school and family demands | ||
54 | Asking for reasonable modifications | 269 |
55 | Dealing with frustrating work | 273 |
56 | Accepting no or waiting for what you want | 276 |
57 | Asking nicely for what you want | 278 |
58 | Working cooperatively in groups | 280 |
59 | Dealing with mistakes and correction | 284 |
60 | How to respectfully disagree with teachers, parents, or supervisors | 287 |
61 | Dealing with stressful living situations | 289 |
Employment skills | ||
62 | Choosing job/career directions | 292 |
63 | Conducting a job search | 301 |
64 | Writing a resume and cover letters | 305 |
65 | Scripts for networking with friends, relatives, and potential employers | 316 |
66 | Interview skills (and whether to disclose a disability) | 323 |
67 | Handling rejection | 333 |
68 | Do's and Don'ts to maintain a job | 335 |
69 | Responding to criticisms, accusations or complaints on the job | 339 |
70 | Exiting a job | 341 |
Money Matters | ||
71 | Managing money | 344 |
Preparing for Emergencies | ||
72 | Dealing with emergencies and emergency workers (such as police or hospital workers) | 348 |
Transportation | ||
73 | Negotiating transportation | 351 |