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Book cover image of Preparing for Life: The Complete Guide for Transitioning to Adulthood for Those with Autism and Asperger's Syndrome by Jed Baker PH.D.

Authors: Jed Baker PH.D., Jed Baker
ISBN-13: 9781932565331, ISBN-10: 1932565337
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Future Horizons, Inc.
Date Published: January 2006
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Jed Baker PH.D.

Jed Baker, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist with over 12 years experience leading theraputic groups with children, adults and families. He is a behavioral consultant for several New Jersey school systems, providing social skills training for students with pervasive developmental disorders and learning disabilities. In addition, he writes, lectures, and provides training throughout the Northeast on social skills training for individuals with Asperger Sydrome and related pervasive developmental disorders.

Book Synopsis

A bestselling author and counselor offers a comprehensive resource for students on the autism spectrum preparing for life after high school. This handbook focuses on "life skills training" on such subjects as nonverbal cues, body language, dealing with anger, and building and maintaining friendships and intimate relationships. Includes assessment tools for parents and analysis of laws that provide accommodations to adults with disabilities.

Table of Contents

Chapter 1Asperger's Syndrome, autism spectrum disorders, and the need for life skills training1
Chapter 2The transition process and the law7
Chapter 3Self-awareness and moving beyond denial11
Chapter 4College, Career and Residential Options Beyond High School: What parents can do to prepare their son or daughter (by Rick Blumberg, Ph.D.)29
Chapter 5Assessment of social skill needs47
Chapter 6Skill instruction strategies: Individual, small group, self-instruction55
Chapter 7Generalization of skills69
Chapter 8Training peers to be more accepting of students on the spectrum77
Chapter 9Skill lessons89
Nonverbal cues/body language
1Expressing and reading welcoming versus unwelcoming social cues91
2Interest versus boredom social cues94
3Sarcasm versus genuine expressions97
4Attending to others100
5Respecting personal space and belongings103
6Personal hygiene106
7Dealing with odd motor mannerisms110
Dealing with anger/frustration
8Overview of dealing with anger112
9Identifying triggers to your anger115
10Altering or avoiding the triggers to your anger117
11Better ways to think about and deal with the triggers to your anger121
12Calming yourself when angry125
13Talking versus acting out your feelings128
14Putting it all together: Using the Daily Anger Record131
Dealing with anxiety
15Dealing with anxiety and fear- Understanding the alarm reaction136
16Dealing with unpleasant, intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviors140
17Dealing with social fears147
18Dealing with new feared situations153
Conversation
19Sayings hello's and goodbye's165
20Introductions167
21Politely interrupting169
22Maintaining and joining a conversation171
23Starting conversations with people you know175
24Getting to know someone new179
25Poster: Summary of Starting and Maintaining Conversations183
26Conversation repair strategies184
27Politely changing topics188
28Being sensitive to the listener's interests191
29Politely ending conversations194
30Answering the telephone and taking messages196
31Calling friends on the telephone198
Building and maintaining friendships (and dealing with roommates)
32Where to find friends202
33Don't try too hard too soon206
34Sharing friends210
35Avoiding touchy subjects and insults213
36Complimenting217
37Respecting others' views219
38Don't impose rules on others (minding your own business)222
39Avoid bragging224
40Dealing with peer pressure and avoiding setups226
41Empathic listening230
42Showing caring for others' feelings through supportive statements234
43Deepening relationships-sharing personal information237
44Conflict resolution/Assertiveness241
45Dealing with teasing245
46Showing good sportsmanship249
47Getting attention in positive ways251
Dating
48Where to find a date and how and when to ask someone on a date253
49Asking someone out on a date256
50Reading the signals-when to pursue a romantic relationship259
51Sexual harassment262
52Do's and Don'ts on a date264
53Communicating clearly to meet each other's needs266
Dealing with school and family demands
54Asking for reasonable modifications269
55Dealing with frustrating work273
56Accepting no or waiting for what you want276
57Asking nicely for what you want278
58Working cooperatively in groups280
59Dealing with mistakes and correction284
60How to respectfully disagree with teachers, parents, or supervisors287
61Dealing with stressful living situations289
Employment skills
62Choosing job/career directions292
63Conducting a job search301
64Writing a resume and cover letters305
65Scripts for networking with friends, relatives, and potential employers316
66Interview skills (and whether to disclose a disability)323
67Handling rejection333
68Do's and Don'ts to maintain a job335
69Responding to criticisms, accusations or complaints on the job339
70Exiting a job341
Money Matters
71Managing money344
Preparing for Emergencies
72Dealing with emergencies and emergency workers (such as police or hospital workers)348
Transportation
73Negotiating transportation351

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