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Book cover image of Power of Apology: Healing Steps to Transform All Your Relationships by Beverly Engel

Authors: Beverly Engel
ISBN-13: 9780471218920, ISBN-10: 0471218928
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Wiley, John & Sons, Incorporated
Date Published: July 2002
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Beverly Engel

BEVERLY ENGEL has been a psychotherapist for over twenty-five years. A recognized expert in the fields of relationships, women's issues, and abuse, she is the author of fourteen books, including Loving Him Without Losing You and The Emotionally Abusive Relationship (both from Wiley). Engel has been featured on Oprah, CNN, Ricki Lake, Sally Jessy Raphael, and other nationally syndicated programs.

Book Synopsis

"Fresh and useful . . . excellent practical advice . . . thorough and lucid . . . will be welcomed by many who have struggled to ask forgiveness and to forgive."

–Publishers Weekly

A finalist in the Books for a Better Life Awards competition!

Discover the healing power of apology and put its magic to work in your life

Do you have a difficult time apologizing or are you involved with someone who does?

Do you tend to overapologize and appear weak in others’ eyes?

Do you want to reconcile with someone but feel they owe you an apology first?

Do you need to apologize or make amends to someone but don’t know how to go about it?

In this inspiring book from internationally acclaimed therapist and self-improvement author Beverly Engel, you will learn why some people have difficulty apologizing while others tend to overapologize. You’ll learn how to give a meaningful apology, how to ask for one, and how to receive one. From making amends with those you have hurt to dealing with someone who refuses to apologize to teaching children responsibility and empathy, this life-changing book shows you how to bring a healing new element of renewal into every relationship in your life.

"Beverly Engel has eloquently explained the power of apology in a remarkably insightful and perceptive manner. No one has been better able to explain what an apology means and its role in reconciliation."

–Rabbi Charles A. Klein, author of How to Forgive When You Can’t Forget: Healing Our Personal Relationships

"Readers of this wise and lucid guide to the neglected art of authentic apology will acquire a powerful tool to help repair relationships with others and with themselves."

–Jeanne Safer, Ph.D., author of Forgiving and Not Forgiving: A New Approach to Resolving Intimate Betrayal

"An engaging and in-depth book on a subject that has rarely been addressed so intelligently and thoroughly. Ms. Engel offers the reader specific suggestions that can help you improve all your relationships."

–Steven Farmer, M.F.T., author of Adult Children of Abusive Parents

Table of Contents

Acknowledgmentsxi
Introduction1
Part 1The Power of Apology9
Chapter 1Apology Is for Everyone11
Chapter 2Why Learning to Give, Receive, and Ask for Apologies Is So Important22
Chapter 3Why Apologizing Is Difficult for Some and Too Easy for Others37
Part 2Learn How to Give a Meaningful Apology53
Chapter 4The Right and Wrong Way to Apologize55
Part 3Learn How to Receive and Accept Apologies77
Chapter 5Opening the Door with Empathy79
Chapter 6Overcoming the Seven Obstacles to Forgiveness87
Chapter 7There Is a Time to Forgive--and a Time to Forget About Forgiving109
Part 4Learn How to Ask for an Apology119
Chapter 8Silence Isn't Always Golden121
Part 5Transform All Your Relationships Through Apology129
Chapter 9Healing Your Relationship with Yourself131
Chapter 10Healing Your Past, Step 1: Make Your Apology List141
Chapter 11Healing Your Past, Step 2: Make Amends152
Chapter 12Healing Your Family When There Has Been an Estrangement165
Chapter 13Healing Your Marriage or Romantic Relationship180
Chapter 14Teach Your Children Well203
Chapter 15Healing Your Business Relationships Through Respect and Compassion219
Chapter 16Conclusion: The Apology Movement230
AppendixTwo Ideas to Consider: Apology Circles and Restorative Justice237
References241
Recommended Reading243
Index000

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