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Book cover image of Positive Discipline by Jane Nelsen

Authors: Jane Nelsen
ISBN-13: 9780345487674, ISBN-10: 0345487672
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
Date Published: May 2006
Edition: ANN

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Author Biography: Jane Nelsen

Book Synopsis

For twenty-five years, Positive Discipline has been the gold standard reference for grown-ups working with children. Now Jane Nelsen, distinguished psychologist, educator, and mother of seven, has written a revised and expanded edition. The key to positive discipline is not punishment, she tells us, but mutual respect. Nelsen coaches parents and teachers to be both firm and kind, so that any child–from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager–can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline with no loss of dignity. Inside you’ll discover how to

• bridge communication gaps
• defuse power struggles
• avoid the dangers of praise
• enforce your message of love
• build on strengths, not weaknesses
• hold children accountable with their self-respect intact
• teach children not what to think but how to think
• win cooperation at home and at school
• meet the special challenge of teen misbehavior

“It is not easy to improve a classic book, but Jane Nelson has done so in this revised edition. Packed with updated examples that are clear and specific, Positive Discipline shows parents exactly how to focus on solutions while being kind and firm. If you want to enrich your relationship with your children, this is the book for you.”
–Sal Severe, author of How to Behave So Your Children Will, Too!

Millions of children have already benefited from the counsel in this wise and warmhearted book, which features dozens of true stories of positive discipline in action. Give your child the tools he or she needs for a well-adjusted life with this proven treasure trove of practical advice.

Table of Contents

Foreword
Preface
Introduction to the Second Edition
Introduction to the First Edition
Ch. 1The Positive Approach3
Ch. 2Some Basic Concepts18
Ch. 3The Significance of Birth Order38
Ch. 4Four Mistaken Goals of Behavior55
Ch. 5Natural and Logical Consequences80
Ch. 6Using Encouragement Effectively103
Ch. 7Class Meetings132
Ch. 8Family Meetings166
Ch. 9Putting It All Together184
Ch. 10Love and Joy in Families and Schools213
App. 1: Starting a Positive Discipline Study Group232
App. 2: Sample Flyer235
App. 3: Study Group Schedule236
App. 4: Group Participation239
App. 5: Problem-Solving Form243
App. 6: Using the Problem-Solving Form245
App. 7: Problem-Solving Possibilities249
Suggested Readings251
Index254

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