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Not to People Like Us: Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages » (Reprint)

Book cover image of Not to People Like Us: Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages by Susan Weitzman

Authors: Susan Weitzman
ISBN-13: 9780465090747, ISBN-10: 0465090745
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Basic Books
Date Published: August 2001
Edition: Reprint

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Author Biography: Susan Weitzman

Susan Weitzman, Ph.D., is an institute lecturer at the University of Chicago's School of Social Service Administration. A practicing psychotherapist in Chicago, she lectures and conducts workshops nationally.

Book Synopsis

As seen on "2020," "48 Hours," "Sally Jesse Raphael," and in People magazine: A startling exposé of domestic violence against well-educated, well-to-do women, and a powerful indictment of the social service system that fails to protect them.

READINGS

All practitioners working with adult women should read this book.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgmentsv
Part 1Upscale Violence
1Piercing the Veil of Silence3
2"This Doesn't Happen to People Like Us ..."17
3Why Do Women Stay in Abusive Marriages?37
Part 2The Wife's Path in and Her Way Out
4Getting In: "He Was So Sexy, So Powerful--He Swept Me Off My Feet ..."55
5Staying the Course: "I Made My Bed ..."79
6Going Public and Getting Going: "I'm Outta Here ..."109
Part 3People Along the Path: Those Who Help or Hurt
7The Men: Arrogance and Insecurity, Grandiosity and Self-Doubt131
8What About the Children?159
9Who Can Help? Therapeutic Interventions175
10The Double-Edged Sword: How Family, Friends, and Professionals Can Make Matters Worse203
Part 4Aftermath
11Life Goes On221
Appendices231
Notes253
References271
Index281

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