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Authors: Marie Allen, Shelly Marks
ISBN-13: 9780471548348, ISBN-10: 0471548340
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Wiley, John & Sons, Incorporated
Date Published: January 1993
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Marie Allen

MARIE ALLEN, PhD, and SHELLY MARKS, MS, both of San Diego, California, are active volunteers in a support group for parents who have lost babies. They speak frequently on miscarriage and bereavement.

Book Synopsis

Compassion and support from 100 women "Women who miscarry must not and need not be left in emotional isolation. I am pleased that this timely and sensitive reflection on miscarriage is now available to grieving women and to those who are involved in their lives." —from the Foreword by Richard F. Jones III, MD, FACOG President, The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists Based on the authors' own experiences as well as the shared experiences of women from across the country, Miscarriage: Women Sharing From the Heart is more than a helpful resource. This candid and poignant book helps you understand and work through your deepest feelings and concerns and, most importantly, reassures you that you aren't alone. The authors offer:
* Support, empathy, and a clear path towards healing
* The personal stories of 100 women talking about their miscarriage experiences
* Interviews with fathers on how they have been affected
* Helpful advice for partners, family members, and health care professionals

Library Journal

In contrast to the comprehensive psychological, medical, and social services approach presented to parents by Ingrid Kahn and Perry-Lynn Maffit's A Silent Sorrow: Pregnancy Loss ( LJ 1/93), this handbook by two bereaved mothers focuses on helping mothers to acknowledge and grieve the death of their unborn child. The authors share their intimate feelings and those of the 100 diverse women whom they interviewed about maternal love, loneliness, confusion, responses of their partners and doctors, and obstacles to grieving. Painfully moving anecdotes in the respondents' own words, combined with informed commentary, make this text a detailed and insightful guide to understanding just what a bereaved mother feels. Recommended.-- Kathryn Hammell Carpenter, Univ. of Illinois, Chicago

Table of Contents

Foreword
Opening Note to the Mother
Pt. 1Miscarriage1
1A Beginning3
2The Mother Who Has Miscarried12
3Shelly's Story21
Pt. 2Maternal Love and Attachment31
4Our Pregnancies, Our Babies33
5Julianna's Story40
Pt. 3Echoes of Mourning45
6A Death47
7Grieving52
8Jessi's Story67
9The Hardest Part69
10Insights and Reflections75
11Leah's Story81
Pt. 4Relationships85
12Our Partners87
13Our Partners' Grief93
14Our Living Children107
15Our Families and Friends117
16Professionals122
Pt. 5Facets of Grief127
17Understanding Grief129
18Respecting and Honoring Our Grief132
19Emotional and Physical Dimensions135
20Eve's Story144
21Understanding Our Emotions148
Pt. 6Beliefs That Get In The Way159
22Childhood Lessons161
23Societal Myths165
24Hannah's Story171
Pt. 7The Journey175
25Passage Through Grief177
26Elizabeth's Story185
Pt. 8Unfolding189
27A Common Grief191
28Marie's Story193
29Opening to Life205
30Gifts211
Parting Note to the Mother217
In Appreciation218
Appendix A: Taking Care220
Appendix B: Additional Reading244
Appendix C: Statistical Findings247
Glossary of Medical Terms249
Index251

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