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Authors: Chaya Feuerman CSW, Chaya Feuerman
ISBN-13: 9780765761743, ISBN-10: 0765761742
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Aronson, Jason Inc.
Date Published: August 2002
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Chaya Feuerman CSW

Book Synopsis

How to Have Fun without Getting into Trouble provides insights into the many complex issues that modern Jews face today. The essays are drawn from the authors' experiences as religious Jews, parents, and psychotherapists.

Table of Contents

Introduction
Pt. 1Relationships
When You Can't Forgive3
How to Have a Fight with Your Spouse9
Helping Someone Who is Self-Destructive15
Living with a "Control Freak" and How Not to Be a Controlling Person23
Doubts in Dating and Marriage31
The Psychology of In-law Conflicts39
Being Smart Isn't Everything47
How to Change Your Spouse53
Boundaries for Healthy Relationships59
The Use of Silence67
Pt. 2Parenting
Making the Most out of Playtime with Your Child75
Whining Versus Expressing Feelings79
Using Halachic Obligations to Promote Maturity and Character Development in Children87
Teens and the Torah Home91
Working with Conflicts about Religious Matters Between Husband and Wife97
Financial Limitations and Parenting103
Adjusting to a New Sibling107
Good Habits for Back to School Time111
Loving an Unlovable Child117
Report Cards Dos and Don'ts121
Self-Destructiveness in Children125
My Child is Unpopular in School129
Avoiding Tantrums133
Peer Pressure and Family Values137
How to Praise Children141
Blowing Up at Your Kids145
The Teeter-Totter Syndrome149
Children, Shul, and Davening155
When a Yeshiva Bochur and His Family Disagree Over Frumkeit165
Pt. 3The Self
Feelings Versus Actions: Torah and Psychological Perspectives175
Guilt, Teshuva, and Psychology183
Personal Autonomy and Kibbud Av v'Em189
The Stigma of Psychotherapy197
The Psychological Aspects of Questions of Faith205
Can Psychotherapy Be Self-Administered?209
The Psychological Dynamics of the Shaala (Halachic Question)215
When you get the "Blues"219
A Midrashic Metaphor on Mental Illness223
The Psychological Meaning of Boredom229
A Kollel Survival Guide233
Accidents, Torah, and Psychology241
Afterword249

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