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Authors: Chaya Feuerman CSW, Chaya Feuerman
ISBN-13: 9780765761743, ISBN-10: 0765761742
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Aronson, Jason Inc.
Date Published: August 2002
Edition: (Non-applicable)
How to Have Fun without Getting into Trouble provides insights into the many complex issues that modern Jews face today. The essays are drawn from the authors' experiences as religious Jews, parents, and psychotherapists.
Introduction | ||
Pt. 1 | Relationships | |
When You Can't Forgive | 3 | |
How to Have a Fight with Your Spouse | 9 | |
Helping Someone Who is Self-Destructive | 15 | |
Living with a "Control Freak" and How Not to Be a Controlling Person | 23 | |
Doubts in Dating and Marriage | 31 | |
The Psychology of In-law Conflicts | 39 | |
Being Smart Isn't Everything | 47 | |
How to Change Your Spouse | 53 | |
Boundaries for Healthy Relationships | 59 | |
The Use of Silence | 67 | |
Pt. 2 | Parenting | |
Making the Most out of Playtime with Your Child | 75 | |
Whining Versus Expressing Feelings | 79 | |
Using Halachic Obligations to Promote Maturity and Character Development in Children | 87 | |
Teens and the Torah Home | 91 | |
Working with Conflicts about Religious Matters Between Husband and Wife | 97 | |
Financial Limitations and Parenting | 103 | |
Adjusting to a New Sibling | 107 | |
Good Habits for Back to School Time | 111 | |
Loving an Unlovable Child | 117 | |
Report Cards Dos and Don'ts | 121 | |
Self-Destructiveness in Children | 125 | |
My Child is Unpopular in School | 129 | |
Avoiding Tantrums | 133 | |
Peer Pressure and Family Values | 137 | |
How to Praise Children | 141 | |
Blowing Up at Your Kids | 145 | |
The Teeter-Totter Syndrome | 149 | |
Children, Shul, and Davening | 155 | |
When a Yeshiva Bochur and His Family Disagree Over Frumkeit | 165 | |
Pt. 3 | The Self | |
Feelings Versus Actions: Torah and Psychological Perspectives | 175 | |
Guilt, Teshuva, and Psychology | 183 | |
Personal Autonomy and Kibbud Av v'Em | 189 | |
The Stigma of Psychotherapy | 197 | |
The Psychological Aspects of Questions of Faith | 205 | |
Can Psychotherapy Be Self-Administered? | 209 | |
The Psychological Dynamics of the Shaala (Halachic Question) | 215 | |
When you get the "Blues" | 219 | |
A Midrashic Metaphor on Mental Illness | 223 | |
The Psychological Meaning of Boredom | 229 | |
A Kollel Survival Guide | 233 | |
Accidents, Torah, and Psychology | 241 | |
Afterword | 249 |