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How to Behave so Your Preschooler Will, Too! » (Reprint)

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Authors: Sal Severe, Sal Severe
ISBN-13: 9780142004586, ISBN-10: 0142004588
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Penguin Group (USA) Incorporated
Date Published: June 2004
Edition: Reprint

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Author Biography: Sal Severe

Dr. Sal Severe has been a school psychologist for more than twenty- five years. He serves on the advisory board of Parents magazine and is a member of the National Association of School Psychologists.

Book Synopsis

Dr. Sal Severe established himself as a leading childcare and parenting expert with his phenomenally successful How to Behave So Your Children Will, Too! Now he focuses on raising children between the ages of three and six. Based on Dr. Severe's philosophy that children's behavior often reflects that of their parents, this book teaches readers how to better handle a host of issues, from fussing at bedtime and temper tantrums to toilet training and sibling rivalry. Instead of focusing on what children do wrong, Severe teaches parents what they can do right by emphasizing the positive, being consistent, and being more patient. Filled with checklists, an extensive resource guide to books that parents can read with their preschoolers, and plenty of inspiration, this goldmine of helpful advice is certain to become a bible for stressed-out parents everywhere.

Publishers Weekly

Severe, author of the bestselling How to Behave so Your Children Will, Too!, focuses on children ages three to six. Parents know all too well that toddlers can be particularly difficult. Sometimes their inability to speak makes it hard to figure out what they want; other children have demanding temperaments and still other kids haven't been taught the "right" behavior for a particular situation. In a calm and soothing manner, Severe offers coping strategies for parents with the most common dilemmas, including tantrums, toilet training, sibling rivalry and more. The author discusses the circumstances, offers specific suggestions for parents and provides a summary chart of what not to do and how kids can get the wrong message by following their parents. For example, when a parent watches TV several hours a day, children learn that they can do the same, or when a parent yells obscenities at a driver who takes a parking spot, the child learns that he or she can also be verbally offensive. Parents can counteract their own bad behavior, counsels Severe, by apologizing for using bad language or taking responsibility for being angry and trying to be polite. The book is particularly helpful for first-time parents, who will find Severe's step-by-step prescriptions what to do when a toddler has a tantrum or how to handle time-outs invaluable. Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information.

Table of Contents

Prefacevii
Acknowledgmentsix
Part IIntroduction1
1What Preschoolers Need from Their Parents3
Part IIDevelopmental Factors That Affect Behavior15
2How Language Affects Behavior17
3How Temperament Affects Behavior38
4How Self-Esteem Affects Behavior45
5How Motivation Affects Behavior53
6How Preschoolers Learn62
Part IIIBetter Behavior Principles77
7Quick Start Strategies79
8You and Your Preschooler Learn from Each Other93
9Being Consistent Is Seldom Easy, but It Is Always Worth It103
Part IVPutting Better Behavior Principles into Practice115
10How to Build Positive Behaviors and Attitudes117
11Use Charts and Checklists to Teach Accountability131
12Use Rules to Provide Guidance139
13Managing Your Anger155
14Alternatives to Spanking164
15Correcting Misbehavior with Time-Out171
16Planning Improves Misbehavior197
Part VApplying Better Behavior Principles to Everyday Challenges207
17Common Challenges209
18Sibling Strife224
19From Comfort to Coping231
20Preschool Fears241
21Behavior in Public Places250
22Preschoolers, Aggression, and Anger259
23Choosing a Preschool268
24Children with Special Needs271
25From Cookies to Car Keys277
AppendixChildren's Book List281
Index303

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