Authors: Ph.D. Heinowitz, Wade F. Horn
ISBN-13: 9781577311874, ISBN-10: 1577311876
Format: Paperback
Publisher: New World Library
Date Published: March 2001
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Becoming a father is a life-changing event, and not an easy one. The new feelings, emotions, and reactions surfacing every day can be confusing and overwhelming, summoning new dads to resolve old issues. Fathering Right from the Start guides men through this life passage, helping them navigate difficult times and participate meaningfully in parenting. Complete with exercises, checklists, and firsthand accounts by fathers from all walks of life, this indispensable book carries the seeds for a new tradition of men’s involvement in the emotional, cultural, and physical structure of the family.
As prospective fathers, men are often shadow figures, sometimes treated as mere handmaids to She of Ballooning Belly. And things may not change once the new baby is on board. Psychologist Jack Heinowitz, Ph.D., is on a campaign to convince people that fathers also have an important role, beginning with pregnancy. He makes his case in Fathering Right from the Start.
Foreword by Wade F. Horn, Ph.D | xiii |
Preface | xvii |
Introduction | xix |
Part I: Pregnancy | |
Chapter 1 The Call to Fatherhood Fathering through the | |
Ages * Why We Hold Back | 3 |
Chapter 2 Getting a Grip on Pregnancy What Price Denial? | |
* What about Me? * Pregnancy Symptoms * Ritualizing Your | 9 |
Chapter 3 Sex and the Pregnant Couple Sex through the | |
Trimesters * Sustained Lovemaking * Becoming a Wiser | 25 |
Chapter 4 Preparing for the Birth Childbirth Classes * | |
Birth Choices * A Birthing Plan for Two | 37 |
Part II: Birth | |
Chapter 5 Laboring and Birthing Together Your Part in | |
Labor * Being at the Birth * Not Being There * Welcoming | 47 |
Chapter 6 Postpartum Adjustments But Where Is the Love? | |
* New Mothers and New Fathers * Who Comes First? * | 55 |
Chapter 7 Is There Sex after Birth? Spontaneity's | |
Disappearing Act * Breastfeeding Challenges * Clearing | 65 |
Part III: Moving Beyond | |
Chapter 8 Facing Our Fears Fight Those Fears, Man! * | |
Fear Is * Where Does Fear Come From? * Making the Shift * | 77 |
Chapter 9 Mining Our Power Getting to Know Ourselves * | |
Letting Ourselves Be Known | 95 |
Chapter 10 What Our Partners Really Want Listening | |
Pitfalls * Meaningful Communication * A Foundationfor | 107 |
Chapter 11 What Our Children Really Need An Open Book or | |
an Open Heart? * A Father's Touch | 119 |
Chapter 12 Fathering through the Stages Infancy and | |
Toddlerhood * The School-Age Years Adolescence * | 137 |
Epilogue | 147 |
Notes | 149 |
Suggested Reading | 151 |
Index | 157 |
About the Author | 163 |