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Authors: Ph.D. Heinowitz, Wade F. Horn
ISBN-13: 9781577311874, ISBN-10: 1577311876
Format: Paperback
Publisher: New World Library
Date Published: March 2001
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Ph.D. Heinowitz

Book Synopsis

Becoming a father is a life-changing event, and not an easy one. The new feelings, emotions, and reactions surfacing every day can be confusing and overwhelming, summoning new dads to resolve old issues. Fathering Right from the Start guides men through this life passage, helping them navigate difficult times and participate meaningfully in parenting. Complete with exercises, checklists, and firsthand accounts by fathers from all walks of life, this indispensable book carries the seeds for a new tradition of men’s involvement in the emotional, cultural, and physical structure of the family.

Psychology Today

As prospective fathers, men are often shadow figures, sometimes treated as mere handmaids to She of Ballooning Belly. And things may not change once the new baby is on board. Psychologist Jack Heinowitz, Ph.D., is on a campaign to convince people that fathers also have an important role, beginning with pregnancy. He makes his case in Fathering Right from the Start.

Table of Contents

Foreword by Wade F. Horn, Ph.Dxiii
Prefacexvii
Introductionxix
Part I: Pregnancy
Chapter 1 The Call to Fatherhood Fathering through the
Ages * Why We Hold Back3
Chapter 2 Getting a Grip on Pregnancy What Price Denial?
* What about Me? * Pregnancy Symptoms * Ritualizing Your9
Chapter 3 Sex and the Pregnant Couple Sex through the
Trimesters * Sustained Lovemaking * Becoming a Wiser25
Chapter 4 Preparing for the Birth Childbirth Classes *
Birth Choices * A Birthing Plan for Two37
Part II: Birth
Chapter 5 Laboring and Birthing Together Your Part in
Labor * Being at the Birth * Not Being There * Welcoming47
Chapter 6 Postpartum Adjustments But Where Is the Love?
* New Mothers and New Fathers * Who Comes First? *55
Chapter 7 Is There Sex after Birth? Spontaneity's
Disappearing Act * Breastfeeding Challenges * Clearing65
Part III: Moving Beyond
Chapter 8 Facing Our Fears Fight Those Fears, Man! *
Fear Is * Where Does Fear Come From? * Making the Shift *77
Chapter 9 Mining Our Power Getting to Know Ourselves *
Letting Ourselves Be Known95
Chapter 10 What Our Partners Really Want Listening
Pitfalls * Meaningful Communication * A Foundationfor107
Chapter 11 What Our Children Really Need An Open Book or
an Open Heart? * A Father's Touch119
Chapter 12 Fathering through the Stages Infancy and
Toddlerhood * The School-Age Years Adolescence *137
Epilogue147
Notes149
Suggested Reading151
Index157
About the Author163

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