Authors: Louis J. Bevilacqua, Frank M. Dattilio
ISBN-13: 9780471385127, ISBN-10: 0471385123
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Wiley, John & Sons, Incorporated
Date Published: March 2001
Edition: 1st Edition
LOUIS J. BEVILACQUA, MEd, NCC, is a National Board Certified Counselor and Clinical Director and Cofounder of Connections Adolescent and Family Care.
FRANK M. DATTILIO, PhD, ABPP, is a clinical psychologist and Clinical Director of the Center for Integrative Psychotherapy. He is the coauthor of The Family Therapy Treatment Planner.
Now fully updated, this book provides an array of homework assignments to help families develop the insight and skills needed to work through their problems. The Second Edition is filled with exercises covering behavioral and psychological problems, including family-of-origin interference, depression in family members, divorce, financial conflict, adolescent and parent conflicts, traumatic life events, and dependency issues. In addition, an accompanying CD-ROM contains all the exercises in Microsoft Word® format, allowing clinicians to customize them to suit their clients' unique styles and needs.
Practice Planner Series Preface | ||
Preface | ||
Acknowledgments | ||
Introduction | ||
Sect. I | Additions | 1 |
Exercise I.A | Staying Clean | 2 |
Exercise I.B | What Else Can I Do? | 5 |
Exercise I.C | Other Addictive Behaviors | 7 |
Sect. II | Adoption | 10 |
Exercise II.A | This Is How I Feel | 11 |
Exercise II.B | My Safe Place | 14 |
Sect. III | Anger Problems | 17 |
Exercise III.A | Why Am I So Angry? | 18 |
Exercise III.B | What Happens When I Become Angry? | 20 |
Exercise III.C | I Don't Have Any Bruises but I Still Hurt | 23 |
Exercise III.D | Go Blow Out Some Candles | 27 |
Sect. IV | Anxiety | 29 |
Exercise IV.A | My/Our Daughter Is Afraid to Go to School | 30 |
Exercise IV.B | When I Feel Anxious It Is Like ... | 32 |
Exercise IV.C | My Mother's Anxiety Makes Me Feel ... | 35 |
Sect. V | Behavioral Problems in Children and Adolescents | 38 |
Exercise V.A | My Child Just Won't Listen | 39 |
Exercise V.B | Acting As If | 42 |
Exercise V.C | We Have to Have Some Kind of Agreement | 45 |
Exercise V.D | Charting Our Course | 48 |
Sect. VI | Bipolar Disorder | 51 |
Exercise VI.A | My Mom Just Won't Stay on Her Medication | 52 |
Sect. VII | Blaming | 56 |
Exercise VII.A | Don't Look at Me, Ask Him | 57 |
Exercise VII.B | The Blaming Jar | 59 |
Exercise VII.C | What's My Job? | 61 |
Sect. VIII | Blended Families | 64 |
Exercise VIII.A | I Have Too Many Parents | 65 |
Exercise VIII.B | We Need to Agree | 69 |
Sect. IX | Child Sexual Abuse | 73 |
Exercise IX.A | Getting It Out | 74 |
Exercise IX.B | I Gotta Stop Thinking This Way | 79 |
Exercise IX.C | A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words | 81 |
Sect. X | Communication Problems | 86 |
Exercise X.A | How Can I Talk So He'll Listen? | 87 |
Exercise X.B | Everything Is Always Negative in Our House | 90 |
Sect. XI | Death/Loss Issues | 92 |
Exercise XI.A | Gone but Not Forgotten | 93 |
Sect. XII | Depression | 98 |
Exercise XII.A | Someone in My Family Is Depressed | 99 |
Exercise XII.B | When Am I Depressed? | 101 |
Exercise XII.C | What Am I Thinking When I Am Feeling Depressed? | 104 |
Exercise XII.D | What Do Others Value about Me? | 106 |
Exercise XII.E | My/Our Daughter Is Depressed | 108 |
Sect. XIII | Disillusionment with Family Ties | 111 |
Exercise XIII.A | Circles of Perception | 112 |
Sect. XIV | Divorce/Separation | 115 |
Exercise XIV.A | My Parents Are Getting a Divorce | 116 |
Sect. XV | Eating Disorders | 120 |
Exercise XV.A | I Need to Get Control | 121 |
Exercise XV.B | What Am I Thinking? | 124 |
Exercise XV.C | Why Is She Doing This? | 127 |
Sect. XVI | External Activities Affecting Family Role | 130 |
Exercise XVI.A | When Can We Be Together? | 131 |
Sect. XVII | Family Business Conflicts | 133 |
Exercise XVII.A | A Changing of the Guard | 134 |
Exercise XVII.B | Who Is Doing What? | 136 |
Sect. XVIII | Family-of-Origin Interference | 138 |
Exercise XVIII.A | Thanks, but No Thanks | 139 |
Exercise XVIII.B | How Can I Tell Her to Mind Her Own Business? | 141 |
Sect. XIX | Foster Care | 143 |
Exercise XIX.A | I Want to Go Home | 144 |
Sect. XX | Geographic Relocation | 147 |
Exercise XX.A | We're Moving | 148 |
Exercise XX.B | Should We or Should We Not? | 150 |
Sect. XXI | Inheritance Disputes | 153 |
Exercise XXI.A | He Always Did Like You Best | 154 |
Sect. XXII | Interracial Family Problems | 156 |
Exercise XXII.A | They're Calling Me a Half-Breed | 157 |
Sect. XXIII | Intolerance/Defensiveness | 159 |
Exercise XXIII.A | Why Can't You Understand My Side for Once? (Part I) | 160 |
Exercise XXIII.B | Why Can't Your Understand My Side for Once? (Part II) | 162 |
Sect. XXIV | Jealousy/Insecurity | 164 |
Exercise XXIV.A | I Am Not Jealous | 165 |
Sect. XXV | Life-Threatening/Chronic Illness | 168 |
Exercise XXV.A | Johnny Has Leukemia | 169 |
Sect. XXVI | Multiple-Birth Dilemmas | 171 |
Exercise XXVI.A | With Seven You Get an Eggroll | 172 |
Exercise XXVI.B | How Are We Going to Do This? | 174 |
Sect. XXVII | Pervasive Developmental Disorders | 176 |
Exercise XXVII.A | Knowing What to Expect | 177 |
Sect. XXVIII | Physical Disabilities | 179 |
Exercise XXVIII.A | Why Is Dad in Bed All Day? | 180 |
Sect. XXIX | Religious/Spiritual Conflicts | 182 |
Exercise XXIX.A | I Don't Know What to Believe In Anymore | 183 |
Sect. XXX | Schizophrenia | 186 |
Exercise XXX.A | My Brother Hears Voices | 187 |
Sect. XXXI | School Problems | 190 |
Exercise XXXI.A | My Teenager Is Truant | 191 |
Sect. XXXII | Sexual Preferences | 196 |
Exercise XXXII.A | I Am Still Danny | 197 |
Sect. XXXIII | Suicide Attempts | 199 |
Exercise XXXIII.A | I Want Things to Be Better | 200 |
Exercise XXXIII.B | Creating a Positive Outlook | 204 |
Sect. XXXIV | Unwanted/Unplanned Pregnancies | 207 |
Exercise XXXIV.A | Honey, Guess What? | 208 |
Bibliography | 211 | |
About the Authors | 213 |