List Books » Elijah's Cup: A Family's Journey into the Community and Culture of High-Functioning Autism and Asperger's Syndrome
Authors: Valerie Paradiz
ISBN-13: 9781843108023, ISBN-10: 184310802X
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Kingsley, Jessica Publishers
Date Published: June 2005
Edition: REV
Valerie Paradiz was born in Colorado and has lived and worked in Germany and Japan. For several years she has taught literature and writing at Bard College in Annandale-on-Hudson. She lives with her son in Woodstock, New York.
The two-year-old toddler Elijah Paradiz was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, a form of autism characterized by social awkwardness, a fixation with particular subjects, and literal-mindedness. Elijah's Cup, written by Elijah's mother, gives a groundbreaking insider's view of the beauty of minds hidden in the shadows of autism.
This expressive and deeply felt memoir explores how the diagnosis of the author's son, Elijah, with Asperger's syndrome (a high-functioning autism) changed her life. As a young child, Elijah had delays in language and motor skills, and also suffered seizures. Paradiz, an assistant professor of German studies at Bard College, details the subsequent dissolution of her marriage (although she and her ex-husband are now friends) and her own depression, events triggered by the problems of coping with Elijah's needs. After Paradiz hired a babysitter with Asperger's syndrome and read several accounts written by people diagnosed as autistic, she understood that her son was a visual rather than a verbal thinker. (According to the author, Albert Einstein and Andy Warhol both had Asperger's syndrome.) This realization led her to provide Elijah with the repetitive activities he needed to enjoy his life. She describes their time together at Autreat, a camp for autistics that emphasizes self-advocacy, an idea that has been rejected by more traditional parents and teachers, who believe that autistics cannot know their needs. This is a moving personal story that highlights a new way of thinking about people diagnosed as autistic. (Apr.) Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information.
Preface | ix | |
Chapter 1 | Elijah's Cup | 1 |
Chapter 2 | The Gift of Loss | 16 |
Chapter 3 | Perfect Strangers | 30 |
Chapter 4 | The Coincidence of Sharron Loree | 44 |
Chapter 5 | Nietzsche in the Bathtub | 59 |
Chapter 6 | My Father Was a Yakker | 77 |
Chapter 7 | Echolalia Fun Fun Fun | 98 |
Chapter 8 | Balloon Days | 110 |
Chapter 9 | Cartoons Don't Get Hurt | 130 |
Chapter 10 | Life Under Glass | 153 |
Chapter 11 | Playground Comedian | 175 |
Chapter 12 | Cracking Code | 201 |
Web Sites by and for Autistic People and for Autistic Advocacy | 220 | |
Notes | 221 | |
Acknowledgments | 232 | |
Index | 236 |