Authors: Alice Miller, Ruth Ward (Translator), Alice Miller
ISBN-13: 9780465016907, ISBN-10: 0465016901
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Basic Books
Date Published: December 1996
Edition: REV
Alice Miller has achieved worldwide recognition for her work on the causes and effects of childhood traumas. Her books include The Drama of the Gifted Child, Banished Knowledge, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware, and For Your Own Good. She lives in Switzerland.
Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided thousands of readers with an answerand has helped them to apply it
A book that patients prescribe...the therapists are reading it because their patients are recommending it.
Acknowledgments | ||
Introduction to the Revised Edition (1994) | 1 | |
1 | The Drama of the Gifted Child and How We Became Psychotherapists | 27 |
The Poor Rich Child | 30 | |
The Lost World of Feelings | 34 | |
In Search of the True Self | 38 | |
The Therapist's History | 44 | |
The Golden Brain | 50 | |
2 | Depression and Grandiosity: Two Related Forms of Denial | 52 |
The Vicissitudes of the Child's Needs | 52 | |
The Illusion of Love | 57 | |
Depressive Phases During Therapy | 74 | |
The Inner Prison | 77 | |
A Social Aspect of Depression | 82 | |
The Legend of Narcissus | 86 | |
3 | The Vicious Circle of Contempt | 87 |
Humiliation for the Child, Disrespect for the Weak, and Where It Goes from There | 87 | |
Working with Contempt in Therapy | 98 | |
"Depravity" as "Evil" in Hermann Hesse's Childhood World | 110 | |
The Mother as Society's Agent During the First Years of Life | 116 | |
The Loneliness of the Contemptuous | 119 | |
Achieving Freedom from Contempt and Respecting Life | 123 | |
Afterword | 129 | |
Works Cited | 137 | |
Appendix | 141 | |
Index | 145 |