Authors: Sylvia Barack Fishman
ISBN-13: 9781584654605, ISBN-10: 1584654600
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Brandeis University Press
Date Published: October 2004
Edition: 1st Edition
SYLVIA BARACK FISHMAN directs the program in Contemporary Jewish Life in the Near Eastern and Judaic Studies Department at Brandeis University, where she is a Professor. She is co-director of the Hadassah-Brandeis Institute. Her most recent book, Jewish Life and American Culture (2000) explored the way American Jews negotiate the Jewish and secular pieces of their lives. Her earlier books include A Breath of Life: Feminism in the American Jewish Community (1993), named a 1994 Honor Book by the National Jewish Book Council; Follow My Footprints: Changing Images of Women in American Jewish Fiction (1992); and Changing Minds: Feminism in Contemporary Orthodox Jewish Life (2000).
A lively and accessible look at Jewish intermarriage and its familial and cultural effects.
Recent population surveys have fixed the rate of mixed marriages in the Jewish community at about 50 percent, but they rarely prod the surface of that statistic. Fishman, however, employs a social scientist's eye to explore family dynamics in order to illuminate the larger social and psychological dimensions of mixed marriages. She posits that the unprecedented acceptance enjoyed by contemporary Jews and the permeable and tolerant boundaries of American society have resulted in the attractiveness of marriage between Jews and non-Jews. Because many who intermarry maintain their own faith-some raising children in one religion, some in both-negotiation and emotion color family life. "We are making the world a better place just by raising our children to participate in two religions," argues one couple. The book follows Jews and non-Jews as they "step through the looking glass into a world familiar yet different," says Fishman. Based on original interviews and published materials, Fishman's research reaches beyond the topic of mixed marriage to describe the complexion of American life in general, its perceptions, strengths and stereotypes. She places real-life mixed marriages in their literary and cultural American contexts, examining depictions of intermarriage in films, books and popular culture. Fishman concludes by discussing the impact of mixed marriage on Jewish heritage and the future of American Jewish life. Given the high percentage of intermarried families, this book should find a ready audience that will resonate with the experiences of Fishman's interviewees. (Mar.) Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.
Acknowledgments | ||
Introduction: Following Our Hearts | 1 | |
Pt. I | Through the Looking Glass | 15 |
1 | When Opposites Attract | 17 |
2 | Meet My Parents | 34 |
3 | The Wedding Planners | 39 |
4 | Inventing New Selves and Traditions | 48 |
Pt. II | Living Mixed Traditions | 55 |
5 | Dreaming of a White - Whatever | 57 |
6 | Life-Cycle Events - I Hope God Has a Sense of Humor | 77 |
7 | Yours, Mine, and Ours | 85 |
Pt. III | Mixed Marriage in Cultural Contexts | 99 |
8 | Interfaith Romance in Literature, Film, and Popular Culture | 101 |
9 | Mixed Messages Are the Medium | 124 |
10 | Speculating on Jewish Futures | 152 |
App | Tables from the Year 2000-2001 NJPS | 169 |
Notes | 177 | |
Index | 189 |