Authors: Betty Auchard
ISBN-13: 9781932173758, ISBN-10: 1932173757
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Stephens Press, LLC
Date Published: January 2010
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Married when she was barely 19, Betty Auchard went straight from her parents' home to her husband's bed. When she loses Denny to cancer after almost 49 years of marriage, widowhood forces Betty to find out what she can do on her own. She has a lot to learn, having never been single before.
These short, upbeat, inspiring stories tell us how this spunky septuagenarian survives-she decides to dance instead of sitting on the sidelines. Betty laughs and cries her way through grief and, ultimately, comes to see her situation as normal. 'None of us is going to get out of this alive, and someone is always going to be left behind feeling sad.'
Acknowledgements | 9 | |
Introduction | 11 | |
Part 1 | He's Gone | |
Blue Skies | 15 | |
While He Was Dying | 16 | |
Driving Denny | 16 | |
Denny, Jim, and Me | 18 | |
Apple Butter for Denny | 21 | |
Putting My Grief on the Line | 22 | |
Negotiations Have Ended | 23 | |
The Mark on the Rug | 24 | |
Never Stop Moving | 25 | |
May Memories | 26 | |
Tears Welling | 26 | |
Hiding the Truth | 28 | |
My Request | 29 | |
Not 'til It's Finished | 29 | |
Emotions: The First Year | 30 | |
Dry Eyes | 31 | |
Part 2 | Reflecting | |
Wilma Gets Married | 35 | |
The Guy in the Middle | 36 | |
Our "Courtship" | 40 | |
Thanksgiving Wedding | 43 | |
Denny's Special Powers | 47 | |
Dirty Towel Tricks | 47 | |
Printing Wild Grass | 49 | |
First Love: A Conversation with My Dad | 50 | |
Part 3 | Staying Afloat | |
Cookie Power | 59 | |
Not Ready to Date | 60 | |
The Special Gift | 62 | |
Camping Alone | 63 | |
Men in My House | 65 | |
Plumber's Helper | 66 | |
Birthday Bonus | 67 | |
My Way | 69 | |
Conversation with Dave | 70 | |
Proof of Life after Death | 71 | |
Bed Writing | 72 | |
Moving Day | 72 | |
Conversation with Myself | 73 | |
Killing an Hour at the Carwash | 74 | |
Christmas Joy | 76 | |
Millennium | 77 | |
January 19, 2000 | 78 | |
Conversation with Jane | 79 | |
Part 4 | Moving On | |
The Orchard | 83 | |
Flower Garden Fiasco | 84 | |
The Carpet Man | 86 | |
Patchwork Dream | 87 | |
Lonesome | 89 | |
The Night that Lizzie Got Baptized | 90 | |
Confessions of an Addict | 91 | |
The Conference | 93 | |
Inheritance from Allie Belle | 95 | |
The Love Goddess from Los Gatos | 98 | |
Too Much to Do | 98 | |
I'm New | 99 | |
Part 5 | The New Me | |
Lookin' Good | 103 | |
Betty Gets Pampered | 104 | |
Pondering My Future | 106 | |
The Big Dance | 107 | |
Sherry | 109 | |
The Day the Ants Died | 112 | |
Stickers | 113 | |
My Controversial Christmas Tree | 115 | |
Boy George Took My Picture Today | 117 | |
Part 6 | Ready For Romance | |
One Half of a Couple | 123 | |
I Want to Live | 123 | |
The Man at the Lion's Club | 124 | |
My Friend Barry | 125 | |
Boyfriend Report | 127 | |
Dear Matchmaking Service | 129 | |
Epilogue | 137 |