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Authors: Betty Auchard
ISBN-13: 9781932173758, ISBN-10: 1932173757
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Stephens Press, LLC
Date Published: January 2010
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Betty Auchard

Book Synopsis

Married when she was barely 19, Betty Auchard went straight from her parents' home to her husband's bed. When she loses Denny to cancer after almost 49 years of marriage, widowhood forces Betty to find out what she can do on her own. She has a lot to learn, having never been single before.

These short, upbeat, inspiring stories tell us how this spunky septuagenarian survives-she decides to dance instead of sitting on the sidelines. Betty laughs and cries her way through grief and, ultimately, comes to see her situation as normal. 'None of us is going to get out of this alive, and someone is always going to be left behind feeling sad.'

Table of Contents

Acknowledgements9
Introduction11
Part 1He's Gone
Blue Skies15
While He Was Dying16
Driving Denny16
Denny, Jim, and Me18
Apple Butter for Denny21
Putting My Grief on the Line22
Negotiations Have Ended23
The Mark on the Rug24
Never Stop Moving25
May Memories26
Tears Welling26
Hiding the Truth28
My Request29
Not 'til It's Finished29
Emotions: The First Year30
Dry Eyes31
Part 2Reflecting
Wilma Gets Married35
The Guy in the Middle36
Our "Courtship"40
Thanksgiving Wedding43
Denny's Special Powers47
Dirty Towel Tricks47
Printing Wild Grass49
First Love: A Conversation with My Dad50
Part 3Staying Afloat
Cookie Power59
Not Ready to Date60
The Special Gift62
Camping Alone63
Men in My House65
Plumber's Helper66
Birthday Bonus67
My Way69
Conversation with Dave70
Proof of Life after Death71
Bed Writing72
Moving Day72
Conversation with Myself73
Killing an Hour at the Carwash74
Christmas Joy76
Millennium77
January 19, 200078
Conversation with Jane79
Part 4Moving On
The Orchard83
Flower Garden Fiasco84
The Carpet Man86
Patchwork Dream87
Lonesome89
The Night that Lizzie Got Baptized90
Confessions of an Addict91
The Conference93
Inheritance from Allie Belle95
The Love Goddess from Los Gatos98
Too Much to Do98
I'm New99
Part 5The New Me
Lookin' Good103
Betty Gets Pampered104
Pondering My Future106
The Big Dance107
Sherry109
The Day the Ants Died112
Stickers113
My Controversial Christmas Tree115
Boy George Took My Picture Today117
Part 6Ready For Romance
One Half of a Couple123
I Want to Live123
The Man at the Lion's Club124
My Friend Barry125
Boyfriend Report127
Dear Matchmaking Service129
Epilogue137

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