List Books » Committed Marriage: A Guide to Finding a Soul Mate and Building a Relationship through Timeless Biblical Wisdom
Authors: Esther Jungreis, Rebbertzin Esther Jungreis
ISBN-13: 9780060937836, ISBN-10: 0060937831
Format: Paperback
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Date Published: May 2004
Edition: First Harpercollins Paperback Edition
Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis was born in Hungary and is descended from a great rabbinic dynasty that traces its lineage back to King David. Founder and president of Hineni, an international out-reach organization with centers in New York and Jerusalem, she writes a weekly column for the Jewish Press, has a weekly television program, lectures extensively, and has been featured in numerous national publications, among them The New York Times, Newsweek, Time, and People. She lives in New York.
In our turbulent world, it sometimes seems difficult to forge and maintain the bonds of a committed, loving relationship. In The Committed Marriage, Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis, esteemed teacher, counselor, and matchmaker, helps even the most pressured modern couples find harmony and unity, guided by the timeless wisdom of the Torah. Starting with the first stagesof finding a soul mate, and continuing through the challenge of learning to communicate with compassion and understanding, whether debating parenting issues or how to grow old in harmony, these real-life success stories reflect the practicality and endurance of traditional values. The anecdotes and true-life stories will speak to your heart and mind, while the Rebbetzin's faith and depth of understanding will inspire you and strengthen your marriage.
Traditionally, many Christian denominations have held fast to the belief that those who confess God's saving grace from sin will be rewarded with eternal life while those who reject this grace will be damned to eternal perdition. Such a belief, according to ministers Gulley and Mulholland, fails miserably to acknowledge the real message of Christianity: that God's gracious arms are wide enough to hold every person, regardless of shortcomings or sins. The authors did not always feel this way, and their little meditation on Christian universalism is as much autobiographical confession as theological treatise. Using stories from their own lives and ministries, Gulley and Mulholland devote a chapter to each of the words in the sentence "why God will save every person." In a seamless voice, they tell of people's struggles to accept teachings of the church that keep them from closeness with God. They also recall events in their own lives where they stood in the way of God's grace operating in personal relationships. For example, when one of their ministerial friends declared his homosexuality, they realized that-despite their former judgmental stance on homosexuality-this person deserved God's love and grace as much as any other. Salvation, they argue, is simply being freed of every obstacle to intimacy with God. Gulley and Mulholland's stirring manifesto on the central role of universalism in Christianity will provoke traditionalists and encourage new ways of thinking about the nature and purpose of the Christian faith. (July) Forecast: The controversy that has surrounded this book is almost certain to help its sales. Gulley, one of the CBA's leading fiction writers, lost his contract with his evangelical Christian publisher when the house learned of his theological views on universalism. Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.
Introduction | xi | |
1 | Finding Your Soul Mate | 1 |
Prelude | 17 | |
Part 1 | A Good Eye | 19 |
2 | Developing a Good Eye, Becoming That Desirable Mate | 21 |
3 | Marriage Is Here to Stay | 35 |
4 | Start Your Family with a Legacy of Song | 47 |
Part 2 | A Good Friend | 63 |
5 | When the Market Drops and You Hit Bottom | 65 |
6 | How to Build a Loving Relationship | 77 |
Part 3 | A Good Neighbor | 93 |
7 | Being Your Own Person | 95 |
8 | Be Your Own Advocate | 107 |
9 | Growing Together--Growing Apart | 123 |
Part 4 | Projecting the Future | 139 |
10 | The Hazards of Divorce | 141 |
11 | Communicating Without Hurting | 159 |
12 | When You Win, Sometimes You Lose | 177 |
Part 5 | A Good Heart | 189 |
13 | A Good Heart | 191 |
14 | The Power of Kind Words | 215 |
15 | Growing Old Together in Dignity | 227 |
16 | Hang in There | 245 |
17 | Shteiging--Growing Step-by-Step | 259 |
18 | Postscript: Time to Grow Up | 265 |