Authors: Carleen Brice
ISBN-13: 9780807028230, ISBN-10: 0807028231
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Beacon
Date Published: May 2003
Edition: (Non-applicable)
Carleen Brice is the author of Walk Tall: Affirmations for People of Color, which was a Blackboard Bestseller, and Lead Me Home: An African American Guide Through the Grief Journey, and was a contributing editor for R.I.P.: The Complete Book of Death and Dying. She has written for various publications, including Mademoiselle, the Chicago Tribune, and BET.com, and lives in Denver, Colorado.
Finally, a collection that celebrates, considers, contemplates, even criticizes'midlife' from a black woman's point of view. Age Ain't Nothing but a Number ranges over every aspect of black women's lives: personal growth, family and friendship, love and sexuality, health, beauty, illness, spirituality, creativity, financial independence, work, and scores of other topics.
Midlife today isn't your grandmother's'change of life.' Today, black women call hot flashes 'power surges,' and menopause, the 'pause that refreshes.' These days, middle-aged women may be newlyweds or new mothers, as well as grandmothers or widows. They may experience the empty-nest syndrome and then the 'return-to-the-nest syndrome' as adult children move back home. They may navigate the field of Internet dating, travel the world, teach homeless women, take up pottery, or study international business.
This anthology captures all of these aspects of midlife as experienced by some of the finest voices in African-American writing today. Featuring the work of Maya Angelou, J. California Cooper, Pearl Cleage, Nikki Giovanni, Susan L. Taylor, Alice Walker, and dozens of others, Age Ain't Nothing but a Number will make readers think, laugh, and cry and will be the perfect gift book for spring.
In this anthology of essays, plus some fiction and poetry, 41 African American women share their sometimes humorous and sometimes painful experiences with middle age. Divided into four sections-"A New Attitude," "New Bones," "Roots," and "In Search of Satisfaction"-these works focus on relationships, health, spirituality, and other relevant topics. An English professor throws a ball rather than a party in honor of her 50th birthday, a poet says good-bye to her monthly cycle, two doctors discuss menopause myths, a broadcast journalist tells of the joys of adoption, and a woman's health activist comments on safe sex among seniors. Such writers as Nikki Giovanni, Diane Donaldson, Miriam Decosta-Willis, and Maya Angelou speak of the fear of aging, dealing with breast reduction surgery, facing the death of a spouse, and finding romance. Whether these women are celebrating or bemoaning the process of growing old, the result is a wonderful compilation. Recommended for women's collections and for public libraries.-Ann Burns "Library Journal" Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.
Introduction | ||
1 | A New Attitude: Personal Growth and Spirituality | |
Who Says an Older Woman Shouldn't Dance? | 5 | |
Age | 11 | |
The Affirmation | 14 | |
Journal (February 12, 1987) | 20 | |
Unlocking Midlife | 23 | |
Games | 24 | |
What I Learned on the Way to Getting Old: Don't Tell Your Age and Other Lessons | 26 | |
Midlife Blues | 31 | |
How to Fly into Fifty (Without a Fear of Flying) | 36 | |
The Ball of a Lifetime | 38 | |
In Search of Meaningful Work | 45 | |
Dreaming of Crones | 49 | |
2 | New Bones: Health, Beauty, and Self-Image | |
New bones | 57 | |
Choosing Longevity | 58 | |
Maneuvering through Menopause: A Rite of Passage | 61 | |
To my last period | 71 | |
Hair Matters at Midlife | 72 | |
Am I Ugly? | 78 | |
Banyan Trunk | 85 | |
from I Left My Back Door Open | 86 | |
Used | 91 | |
My Cups Used to Runneth Over | 92 | |
Middle-Age UFO | 98 | |
3 | Roots: Family and Friendship | |
from A Day Late and a Dollar Short | 105 | |
Homegirl Reunion | 108 | |
Letting Go with Love | 114 | |
from The Women of Brewster Place | 125 | |
Babies??!! | 134 | |
Adoption: A Midlife Love Story | 137 | |
The Pathway Home | 140 | |
The Dance of Life | 147 | |
Full Circling | 154 | |
In the Heat of Shadow | 163 | |
Parents, Wives, and Womanhood: The Lessons We Never Learned | 173 | |
4 | In Search of Satisfaction: Romance and Sexuality | |
Age and Sexuality | 181 | |
Trust Me | 186 | |
Gray Pussy Hair | 189 | |
Safer Sex (before and) after Fifty | 190 | |
Plum Jelly in Hot Shiny Jars | 193 | |
It Might as Well Be Spring | 204 | |
The Company She Keeps | 210 | |
from Do-It-Yourself Rainbows | 212 | |
Love and Other Geometric Shapes | 219 | |
Contributors' Biographies | 221 | |
Editor's Acknowledgments | 229 | |
Credits | 231 |