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Authors: Carleen Brice
ISBN-13: 9780807028230, ISBN-10: 0807028231
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Beacon
Date Published: May 2003
Edition: (Non-applicable)

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Author Biography: Carleen Brice

Carleen Brice is the author of Walk Tall: Affirmations for People of Color, which was a Blackboard Bestseller, and Lead Me Home: An African American Guide Through the Grief Journey, and was a contributing editor for R.I.P.: The Complete Book of Death and Dying. She has written for various publications, including Mademoiselle, the Chicago Tribune, and BET.com, and lives in Denver, Colorado.

Book Synopsis

Finally, a collection that celebrates, considers, contemplates, even criticizes'midlife' from a black woman's point of view. Age Ain't Nothing but a Number ranges over every aspect of black women's lives: personal growth, family and friendship, love and sexuality, health, beauty, illness, spirituality, creativity, financial independence, work, and scores of other topics.

Midlife today isn't your grandmother's'change of life.' Today, black women call hot flashes 'power surges,' and menopause, the 'pause that refreshes.' These days, middle-aged women may be newlyweds or new mothers, as well as grandmothers or widows. They may experience the empty-nest syndrome and then the 'return-to-the-nest syndrome' as adult children move back home. They may navigate the field of Internet dating, travel the world, teach homeless women, take up pottery, or study international business.

This anthology captures all of these aspects of midlife as experienced by some of the finest voices in African-American writing today. Featuring the work of Maya Angelou, J. California Cooper, Pearl Cleage, Nikki Giovanni, Susan L. Taylor, Alice Walker, and dozens of others, Age Ain't Nothing but a Number will make readers think, laugh, and cry and will be the perfect gift book for spring.

Library Journal

In this anthology of essays, plus some fiction and poetry, 41 African American women share their sometimes humorous and sometimes painful experiences with middle age. Divided into four sections-"A New Attitude," "New Bones," "Roots," and "In Search of Satisfaction"-these works focus on relationships, health, spirituality, and other relevant topics. An English professor throws a ball rather than a party in honor of her 50th birthday, a poet says good-bye to her monthly cycle, two doctors discuss menopause myths, a broadcast journalist tells of the joys of adoption, and a woman's health activist comments on safe sex among seniors. Such writers as Nikki Giovanni, Diane Donaldson, Miriam Decosta-Willis, and Maya Angelou speak of the fear of aging, dealing with breast reduction surgery, facing the death of a spouse, and finding romance. Whether these women are celebrating or bemoaning the process of growing old, the result is a wonderful compilation. Recommended for women's collections and for public libraries.-Ann Burns "Library Journal" Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.

Table of Contents

Introduction
1A New Attitude: Personal Growth and Spirituality
Who Says an Older Woman Shouldn't Dance?5
Age11
The Affirmation14
Journal (February 12, 1987)20
Unlocking Midlife23
Games24
What I Learned on the Way to Getting Old: Don't Tell Your Age and Other Lessons26
Midlife Blues31
How to Fly into Fifty (Without a Fear of Flying)36
The Ball of a Lifetime38
In Search of Meaningful Work45
Dreaming of Crones49
2New Bones: Health, Beauty, and Self-Image
New bones57
Choosing Longevity58
Maneuvering through Menopause: A Rite of Passage61
To my last period71
Hair Matters at Midlife72
Am I Ugly?78
Banyan Trunk85
from I Left My Back Door Open86
Used91
My Cups Used to Runneth Over92
Middle-Age UFO98
3Roots: Family and Friendship
from A Day Late and a Dollar Short105
Homegirl Reunion108
Letting Go with Love114
from The Women of Brewster Place125
Babies??!!134
Adoption: A Midlife Love Story137
The Pathway Home140
The Dance of Life147
Full Circling154
In the Heat of Shadow163
Parents, Wives, and Womanhood: The Lessons We Never Learned173
4In Search of Satisfaction: Romance and Sexuality
Age and Sexuality181
Trust Me186
Gray Pussy Hair189
Safer Sex (before and) after Fifty190
Plum Jelly in Hot Shiny Jars193
It Might as Well Be Spring204
The Company She Keeps210
from Do-It-Yourself Rainbows212
Love and Other Geometric Shapes219
Contributors' Biographies221
Editor's Acknowledgments229
Credits231

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