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1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 » (Third edition)

Book cover image of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 by Thomas W. Phelan

Authors: Thomas W. Phelan
ISBN-13: 9781889140162, ISBN-10: 1889140163
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Parentmagic, Inc.
Date Published: October 2003
Edition: Third edition

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Author Biography: Thomas W. Phelan

Thomas W. Phelan, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and a nationally renowned expert on child discipline and attention deficit disorder. His books include 1-2-3 Magic for Teachers, All About Attention Deficit Disorder, and Surviving Your Adolescents. He lives in Glen Ellyn, Illinois.

Book Synopsis

This revised edition of the award-winning 1-2-3 Magic program addresses the difficult task of child discipline with humor, keen insight, and proven experience. The technique offers a foolproof method of disciplining children ages two through 12 without arguing, yelling, or spanking. By means of three easy-to-follow steps, parents learn to manage troublesome behavior, encourage good behavior, and strengthen the parent-child relationship—avoiding the "Talk-Persuade-Argue-Yell-Hit" syndrome which frustrates so many parents. Ten strategies for building a child’s self-esteem and the six types of testing and manipulation a parent can expect from the child are discussed, as well as tips on how to prevent homework arguments, make mealtimes more enjoyable, conduct effective family meetings, and encourage children to start doing their household chores. New advice about kids and technology and new illustrations bring this essential parenting companion completely up-to-date.

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An excellent, workable, and supportive resource for parents and educators.

Table of Contents

Preface to the Third Editioni
Parenting: Not for the Faint of Heart!1
Part IStraight Thinking
1.Is It Magic?7
2.Stop Behavior and Start Behavior11
3.The Little Adult Assumption15
4.The Two Biggest Discipline Mistakes19
Part IIControlling Obnoxious Behavior
5.Counting Obnoxious Behavior25
6.Twenty Questions39
7.What to Do in Public55
8.Variations: Sibling Rivalry, Tantrums and Pouting63
9.The Kickoff Conversation67
Part IIINo Child Will Thank you
10.The Six Kinds of Testing and Manipulation73
11.Counting in Action87
12.More Serious Offenses97
Part IVEncouraging Good Behavior
13.7 Start Behavior Tactics111
14.Up and Out in the Morning127
15.Cleaning Rooms, Picking Up and Chores133
16.Mealtimes141
17.Homework and Practicing147
18.Bedtime and Nighttime Waking155
19.The Family Meeting167
20.When Do you Talk?173
Part VStrengthening your Relationship
21.Your Child's Self-Esteem179
22.Overparenting183
23.Affection and Praise187
24.Real Magic: One-on-One Fun191
25.Active Listening197
26.Your New Life205
Index209

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