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What About Me?: Twelve Ways to Get Your Parents' Attention (Without Hitting Your Sister) Hardcover – Picture Book, January 1, 2005

3.7 3.7 out of 5 stars 23 ratings

FOR CHILDREN AGES 3-8: When a young boy sees his parents preoccupied with his sister, the baby, and daily chores, he wonders, "What About Me?" This charming and compassionate picture book offers children positive choices for coping with feelings of jealousy or being left out. It deftly handles the issue of sibling rivalry by showing how every child can learn kind, helpful, and creative ways to ask for loving attention.
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PreSchool-Grade 1–This rhyming picture book offers positive activities that youngsters can use to get attention. The suggestions range from asking, Can I help? to doing some things all by themselves or inviting a parent to play. Offer to share–even give Sister half./Make silly faces so Baby will laugh. Katayamas ink-and-watercolor, cartoonlike children with tiny elliptical dots for eyes tend to be a bit cloying, but the pictures convey a sense of harmony in the home. An additional purchase with limited child appeal.–Blair Christolon, Prince William Public Library System, Manassas, VA
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"Very highly recommended for all little readers--and parents hoping to instill responsibility in their children's character and conduct." --The Children's Bookwatch (division of Midwest Book Review)

"This rhyming picture book offers positive activities that youngsters can use to get attention....the pictures convey a sense of harmony in the home." --School Library Journal

Product details

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Parenting Press; First Edition (January 1, 2005)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 32 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1884734863
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1884734861
  • Reading age ‏ : ‎ 3 - 8 years
  • Grade level ‏ : ‎ Preschool - 3
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 9.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 8.75 x 0.4 x 9.25 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
    3.7 3.7 out of 5 stars 23 ratings

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Eileen Kennedy-Moore
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- MAIN WEBSITE: EileenKennedyMoore.com

- PODCAST - KIDS ASK DR. FRIENDTATIC: DrFriendtastic.com/podcast

- NEWSLETTER FOR PARENTS: DrFriendtastic.substack.com

Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD, is an author, psychologist, and mom of 4, based in Princeton, NJ, She's a trusted expert on parenting and children's feelings and friendships.

She is the creator of the Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic podcast. Each 5-minute episode features an audio recording of a question about friendship from a child, plus her answer.

Her newest books for children are Moody Moody Cars (for ages 4-8), Growing Friendships: A Kids’ Guide to Making & Keeping Friends (ages 6-12), and Growing Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Dealing With Emotions About Friends and Other Kids (for ages 6-12).

She’s also written 4 books for parents: Kid Confidence, Smart Parenting for Smart Kids, The Unwritten Rules of Friendship, and What's My Child Thinking?, plus an audio-video series for The Great Courses/Wondrium, Raising Emotionally & Socially Healthy Kids.

Dr. Kennedy-Moore is often featured in major media, including Live with Kelly and Ryan and The New York Times. Her blog, Growing Friendships on Psychology Today, has over 4.9 million views.

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Reviewed in the United States on April 10, 2019
My 6yro made it his business to be as naughty as possible because between new baby, his potty-training brother, his older autistic brother, and his 13yro drama queen sister, he's been feeling rather ignored! Do wish parent info pages were removable inserts in most books, though, because he's a smart enough one to be all, Wait, you're using this to get me to stop being naughty?! He was loving the book, but his face fell when he started reading that part. Great book otherwise! Just cover up any parent pages before you give it to an independent reader!
Reviewed in the United States on May 25, 2015
I think this book is most suitable for a pre-school child with a new baby in the house. The listing said it was for children 3-8. I bought it for a seven-year-old and felt it was a poor fit. I seem to remember that another reviewer said the same thing.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 3, 2015
My 3-year-old son asks to read this a lot. It helps him work through sharing th attention with his baby sister.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 23, 2005
If you have more than one child, you need this book! It is a wonderful book to read with your kids. Beautiful illustrations, a good conversation starter, and a fun (and constructive!) way to address sibling rivalry.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 29, 2010
I love this book. It's simple, to the point, and totally encourages POSITIVE behavior. If you are a parent and just about had it with all the negative attention getting - you are going to want this in your library. I found it at my local bookstore with a SALE sticker on it and was glad I got to it first.

First page shows a busy family in the kitchen and brother is sort of scratching his head with an, 'Hmmm...no one is paying attention to me' look on his face. Turn the page and now brother looks like he's about to be up to no good! "You could hit your little sister...But you know you'd get in trouble. So there must be something else that you could try. You could..." The story continues listing twelve different positive things a child could do to get a positive reaction from a parent.

Take it a step further. Don't just read the story and expect behavior magic. Might be cool to make a list of positive attention getters with your own kiddos. Take the time to explain to them that you are clued into their behavior whether it's negative or positive. It will help their awareness.

Author Eileen Kennedy-Moore writes a SMART letter to parents on the last page. As a psychologist and mother of four kids - her tips and advice are right on.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 30, 2010
This has been a great book for our kids. We have 3 girls - 4, 2 and baby. I like this because it shows the parents doing all the things we do (cook, laundry, pay bills, change diapers, work on the computer, yardwork) and gives the kids "self-directable" ideas for getting positive attention. There are 12 'scenarios' with the parent doing a task and the child using a positive behavior to get positive attention from the parent. I also like it because the book doesn't say that the parent will drop everything to play with the child. It ends with the parents saying "I love you too." It's reality that with multiple little ones, often a smile and 'I love you' are what we can give our little ones at the moment. And that is just fine!! Great, reality based and usable book.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 7, 2010
I have three small children and expecting my 4th and last soon and LOVED this book! It's perfect for my oldest and we talk about the suggestions given as it relates to her younger siblings. Can't wait to read it to my son and the rest of the kids. Great book by a wonderful author who herself is a mom of 4!!! In addition, I reviewed this book and interviewed the author of my moms advocacy site, [...] and my readers LOVED it!!! Great book! Thanks.

Ivanna
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Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2006
This book is a favorite with my children. It has proven a great conversation starter with them on what is good behavior and it offers "twelve ways" to children on how they can get their parents' attention through positive means. When we read it together they will often say "I do that! I do that!" -- taking pride in their positive behavior.

The pictures and words are simple so that even the younger ones will page through it on their own and try out one of the "twelve ways" with their parents.

I highly recommend this book.
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