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Decision Making and the Will of God: A Biblical Alternative to the Traditional View Paperback – August 11, 2004
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Does God have a perfect will for each Christian? Can you be absolutely certain of God’s specific will for your life? In this expanded twenty-fifth anniversary edition of his highly acclaimed work, Garry Friesen examines the prevalent view on God’s will today and provides a sound biblical alternative to the traditional teaching of how God guides us. This new edition includes these helpful resources:
• Study guide for small groups
• Responses to Frequently Asked Questions
• Guide to painless Scripture memorization
Friesen tackles the very practical issues of choosing a mate, picking a career, and giving in this fresh and liberating approach to decision making and the will of God.
Story Behind the Book
Most Christians have been taught how to find God’s will, yet many are still unsure whether they’ve found it. God does guide His people, but the question is, “How does He guide?” After “putting out a fleece” to decide which college to attend, Garry Friesen began pondering why it was so hard to find God’s will when he had so sincerely sought it. Was he the only one who did not have 100 percent clarity for every decision? Then a new possibility struck—perhaps his understanding of the nature of God’s will was biblically deficient. Maybe there was a better way to understand HOW God guides.
- Print length528 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherMultnomah
- Publication dateAugust 11, 2004
- Dimensions5.2 x 1.25 x 8.25 inches
- ISBN-101590522052
- ISBN-13978-1590522059
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J. Robin Maxson, ThM, is senior pastor of United Evangelical Free Church in Klamath Falls, Oregon.
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- Publisher : Multnomah (August 11, 2004)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 528 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1590522052
- ISBN-13 : 978-1590522059
- Item Weight : 1 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.2 x 1.25 x 8.25 inches
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To start with, this is a persuasive book. One of the most important things for me, when reading any persuasive material, is the writer's understanding of the counter-argument. If you don't understand both sides, what the other guys think, you shouldn't be trying to persuade people otherwise. In the first part of the book, Garry Friesen, sets up a fictional story to illustrate "the traditional view" and gives an outline of that view; it's accurate and clear. Another thing I look for is whether or not the writer belittles or rails against the opposing view. Again, this books is free of that; it's logical and even-handed.
For subject material, the topic is decision-making as the title says. The writer's view is a practical approach to decision making that empowers the individual to make their own decisions wisely according to Biblical principles. This book will either help you to understand why you, as a Christian, approach decision making in the way that you do, or it will clearly explain a different approach to you. Either way, I highly recommend this book.
Friesen and Maxson make their case by first introducing the "traditional" view through a short narrative, then exposing the faults of the "traditional" view of God's guidance in the Christian's life, then stating their case clearly using Scripture, and then finally applying it to the "big" decisions. Many evangelicals sincerely, but wrongly, believe that God has a plan for their lives that must be followed or else end up in God's "permissive" will. Friesen and Maxson have evaluated this view in light of Scripture, and have found that this method leaves at least some believers wanting. Yet the authors have done so in an irenic manner, not resorting to ad hominem attacks as some Christian authors have done when writing about theology. (One chapter even makes an attempt to "reconcile" these two views by shoring up the defects in the "traditional" view.)
Many will be offended by this book; in fact, many people have been offended. Perhaps the ones who will be most offended are those who sincerely believe that God supernaturally guides them through signs, visions, and impressions. Those who believe that God "speaks" to people today outside of Scripture, of course, exist outside of the Charismatic and Pentecostal circles. Yet Friesen is himself open to "supernatural" guidance; however, he simply believes that it is not the norm today.
Moreover, Friesen does believe that God has a plan and purpose for each believer's life. What he and Maxson argue, however, is that a Christian should not be concerned that what he does is within the will of God unless it is either (a) unbiblical and/or (b) unwise. Being in the will of God, they argue, means being obedient to God's revealed will in Scripture, and being wise in one's decision making. And, as the authors repeatedly affirm, if anyone lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who freely gives (see James 1:5-8).
However, I disagree with Friesen's views on deciding whether one should get married or not, although I do feel glad that he refutes the view that God will "tell" someone whether to get married or not. A better treatment would be found in Debbie Maken's "Getting Serious About Getting Married."
I leave my review with one final note. The children of Israel had it right all along when they affirmed: "The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law" (Deuteronomy 29:29 NKJV). The Lord does have a plan for our lives: It is found in the Word of God. We will be in God's will if we obey that Word and if we walk in wisdom.
He leadeth me O solemn thought,
By His own Words in Scripture wrought,
And by His Spirit in my heart,
To do the things I know I ought.
He leadeth me, not magically,
Nor by some vision I would see.
Nor do I study how things are,
To see if He my way does bar.
Sometimes against my will He leads,
Sometimes regardless of my "needs,"
However hard the path may be,
Still 'tis His hand that leadeth me.
He leadeth me O blessed thought,
To do the things I know I ought.
To help me more like Christ to be,
And so for Him wait eagerly.
Perhaps in some miraculous way,
He'll choose to lead again some day.
No matter what He asks of me,
Will I then say, "He leadeth me?"
Tim Headley
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Unfortunately, this debilitating sense of failure was made worse by much unbiblical, but pious sounding, advice from well-intention Christians: "Ask God, and he will make it clear to you," "Do you have peace about it?" "What is God telling you to do?" Instead of going to the Scriptures, I had to wrestle inside my own muddled mind, trying to neither screw up my life for good nor be disobedient.
DMatWOG was a huge help to me. It made me look at the Bible and not at my feelings. It relieved me from theological-clichés that I assumed theists must believe about God's will.
Basically, Friesen's thrust is that God has spoken very clearly and unambiguously through his Word: We are to obey his moral will, and he has given us Biblical wisdom while we sort out all the other decisions. Yes and amen.
In the long run, what may have been the greatest help to me was not Friesen's thesis on how a Christian makes decisions, but how a Christian ought to deal with the Bible. He does this by slowly going through many commonly cited verses that seem to support the secret-will-of-God view of decision-making ("God is not a God of confusion but of peace" "Trust in the Lord with all your heart... and he will make your paths straight," or any verse where God tells a biblical character what to do), and does what a good exegete does; he looks at language, context, nuance, use of the text throughout Scripture, and possible meanings before settling on what the text is actually saying. For a young Christian, having someone walk you through this process is an invaluable exercise, and helpful in all areas of life.