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Decision Making and the Will of God: A Biblical Alternative to the Traditional View Paperback – August 11, 2004

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Does God Have a Perfect Will for Your Life?

Does God have a perfect will for each Christian? Can you be absolutely certain of God’s specific will for
your life? In this expanded twenty-fifth anniversary edition of his highly acclaimed work, Garry Friesen examines the prevalent view on God’s will today and provides a sound biblical alternative to the traditional teaching of how God guides us. This new edition includes these helpful resources:

   • Study guide for small groups
   • Responses to Frequently Asked Questions
   • Guide to painless Scripture memorization


Friesen tackles the very practical issues of choosing a mate, picking a career, and giving in this fresh and liberating approach to decision making and the will of God.

Story Behind the Book

Most Christians have been taught how to find God’s will, yet many are still unsure whether they’ve found it. God does guide His people, but the question is, “How does He guide?” After “putting out a fleece” to decide which college to attend, Garry Friesen began pondering why it was so hard to find God’s will when he had so sincerely sought it. Was he the only one who did not have 100 percent clarity for every decision? Then a new possibility struck—perhaps his understanding of the nature of God’s will was biblically deficient. Maybe there was a better way to understand HOW God guides.
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Garry Friesen, ThM, ThD, is a member of the Bible faculty at Multnomah Bible College, where he has taught since 1976. Dr. Friesen holds a bachelor’s degree from John Brown University and a master’s degree and doctorate from Dallas Theological Seminary. He lives in Portland, Oregon, where he enjoys hosting Bible reading marathons and collecting C. S. Lewis memorabilia.

J. Robin Maxson, ThM, is senior pastor of United Evangelical Free Church in Klamath Falls, Oregon.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Multnomah (August 11, 2004)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 528 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1590522052
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1590522059
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.2 x 1.25 x 8.25 inches
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Decision Making and the Will of God
This book by Garry Friesen (with J. Robin Maxson) was originally published by Multnomah Press back in 1980 as part of their A Critical Concern Book series. I purchased Decision Making and the Will of God (A Biblical Alternative to the Traditional View) shortly before flying to India on a summer mission trip in 1981. I had been taught what Friesen calls the traditional view and was unaware that there was an alternative. Little did I know that this book with the strange looking cover (different from the one pictured here) would turn my view of this subject around a 180 degrees. I originally read Friesen's book in 1981, again in 1984 and a third time this past summer. The cover of the book I read was quite different from the more recent republished edition (2004) available on Amazon (see original in photo below).Most books I see on this popular subject are often little more than pamphlets and others are maybe 125 pages at best. Friesen's 430-page volume (not counting indices) resulted from his own struggles with "finding God's will" and eventually spawned from his seminary doctoral dissertation, "God's Will As It Relates To Decision Making" (ThD) at Dallas Theological Seminary (1978). Having said this, Friesen's book is not so theologically minded that it is over the head of most readers; not at all. Though he does show the reader how to maneuver in, around and through key Bible texts pertaining to the doctrine of God's will in quite some detail, none of this book is beyond the grasp of anyone who is willing to patiently and systematically engage and investigate what the Bible reveals. However, if you're in hurry to discover a 7-step method to discovering God's will for your life, then this is not the book for you. This book is definitely no page-turner.Friesen divides his survey (his word, not mine) into four parts: (1) "You Have heard It Said (The Traditional View Presented)", (2) "The Case of the Missing `Dot' (The Traditional View Critiqued)", (3) "The Way of Wisdom (The Wisdom View Explained)", and (4) "Deciding the Big Ones (The Wisdom View Applied)." In his Introduction, Friesen reveals his anxiety over why the question that had occupied most of his waking thoughts for years was seemingly so elusive; the one that would eventually become the most important decision of his young Christian life . . ., "Where should I go to college?" In his search, Friesen eventually came to three possibilities concerning discovering God's will:1. Perhaps God was unable to reveal His will.2. Perhaps there was sinfulness or insincerity on Friesen's part.3. Perhaps Friesen's understanding of the nature of God's will was biblically deficient.Friesen eventually came to the understanding that it was his own biblically deficient understanding of the nature of God's will that propelled him to start all over again and approach this subject afresh. Since his conclusions differ significantly from what Friesen calls "The Traditional View" he decided to call his viewpoint "An Alternative View."At first I thought Friesen was making the same cardinal error of too many other authors by first constructing the proverbial "straw man." How disappointing is that? But curiously Friesen confessed in his Introduction that he ". . . intended to give an accurate overview of the teaching most often presented . . . of the traditional view." He admits that he would present a fictional seminar that would cover in some detail the important points of that viewpoint. He would use this content to later compare, contrast and evaluate the two views. (Hmmm). I won't go into the information Friesen presents, but by the time I finished reading about the fictional seminar I was amazed at just how similar it was to what I had been taught . . . and believed.Friesen developed what he believes are four essential questions as guides in his early conclusions about God's will:1. Definition: What does "God's will" mean?2. Proof: Does God have a plan for my life?3. Process: How can I discover God's will?4. Certainty: How can I know God's will for sure in a specific situation?Though I won't go into detail about these questions, I do think it important to mention Friesen's definitions from question #1 above; his three categories of God's will: (1) His Sovereign will, (2) His Moral will, and (3) His individual will. He refers to these in great detail throughout the rest of the book so understanding these are very important. One of the devices Friesen used effectively was after he covered a section, he inserted a well-designed chart that briefly summarized the material covered. Considering the large volume of information Friesen was going to cover, these charts (Figures) clearly captured the essence of his survey and were handy tools for review. On the other hand, I found his circular graphs less helpful.What separated this book from all of the other books I have read on this subject was Friesen's willingness and ability to formulate good questions that spoke to the heart of the issue of God's will. One of the really tough ones was "Does God Have Three Wills? His answer to that question, again, separated his viewpoint from the traditional teaching on this subject. But asking questions is one thing; proving your thesis is another. This is where I thought Friesen excelled. His decision to exegete all of the key texts on God's will and painstakingly hold them up to the light of biblical scrutiny was labor intensive, both for himself and the reader. But the positive outcome was well worth the time.After developing his model (The Way of Wisdom), Friesen spends Section 3 explaining and demonstrating how it worked. In the second half of the book, and this is where he appears to have lost quite a number of readers, Friesen labors at applying his model to the most common "Big Ones", those decisions everyone asks about: Marriage, ministry, missions, vocation, education, etc., etc. He wraps up this long book with a brief, 4-page summary of what he calls his Principles of Decision Making.I enjoyed my most recent read of this book, probably even more than the first two. I particularly appreciated Friesen's citing research material and the additional information contained in his footnotes; though I would have preferred that he post his footnotes at the bottom of the applicable page rather than at the end of the chapter. I know this form of footnoting is old school, but it still benefits the reader over the publisher, especially in a someshat technical book like this one. And like any other book that shakes our traditional viewpoint on biblical matters, Friesen has received a grand amount of criticism. Most of the criticism has centered on the claim that Friesen has removed God from the Christian's decision making. Whether this is true or not is up to each reader who must patiently and diligently follow Friesen through his study. This book is not a sprint to the finish line; instead it's a marathon, and one worth running. In closing, Friesen has a few words for those who after reading his book are still unsure whether to agree or disagree with his alternative to the traditional view of decision making:"For the one who is not sure whether he agrees or disagrees, his response is most crucial. First, he should make it a goal to search the Scripture concerning guidance so that he may become fully convinced before the Lord. Second, he should not begin following this new presentation of guidance until he `is' fully convinced. He should continue to follow his previous conviction so that his actions will be of faith and not of doubt (Romans 14:23). If he is not sure, but goes ahead and attempts to follow the way of wisdom, doubts and self-condemnation are likely to follow (Romans 14:22-23). He should follow the traditional view until he is convinced of another view."
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Reviewed in the United States on August 6, 2015
This book addresses a very popular approach to Christian decision-making; it was truly refreshing and empowering. It's college reading level, but it would really be good for high school students to read and understand. It would make an excellent group-study book; there is also a study guide in the back which could be helpful. The material is logical and thought-provoking.

To start with, this is a persuasive book. One of the most important things for me, when reading any persuasive material, is the writer's understanding of the counter-argument. If you don't understand both sides, what the other guys think, you shouldn't be trying to persuade people otherwise. In the first part of the book, Garry Friesen, sets up a fictional story to illustrate "the traditional view" and gives an outline of that view; it's accurate and clear. Another thing I look for is whether or not the writer belittles or rails against the opposing view. Again, this books is free of that; it's logical and even-handed.

For subject material, the topic is decision-making as the title says. The writer's view is a practical approach to decision making that empowers the individual to make their own decisions wisely according to Biblical principles. This book will either help you to understand why you, as a Christian, approach decision making in the way that you do, or it will clearly explain a different approach to you. Either way, I highly recommend this book.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 4, 2023
So amazingly helpful in finding answers to big questions in life! Well written and easy to read.
Reviewed in the United States on November 4, 2009
After years of searching through books about finding God's will and hearing the "voice" of God, professors Garry Friesen, Ph.D. and J. Robin Maxson, Th.M. have finally answered the question, at least to me, in their second edition of "Decision Making and the Will of God."

Friesen and Maxson make their case by first introducing the "traditional" view through a short narrative, then exposing the faults of the "traditional" view of God's guidance in the Christian's life, then stating their case clearly using Scripture, and then finally applying it to the "big" decisions. Many evangelicals sincerely, but wrongly, believe that God has a plan for their lives that must be followed or else end up in God's "permissive" will. Friesen and Maxson have evaluated this view in light of Scripture, and have found that this method leaves at least some believers wanting. Yet the authors have done so in an irenic manner, not resorting to ad hominem attacks as some Christian authors have done when writing about theology. (One chapter even makes an attempt to "reconcile" these two views by shoring up the defects in the "traditional" view.)

Many will be offended by this book; in fact, many people have been offended. Perhaps the ones who will be most offended are those who sincerely believe that God supernaturally guides them through signs, visions, and impressions. Those who believe that God "speaks" to people today outside of Scripture, of course, exist outside of the Charismatic and Pentecostal circles. Yet Friesen is himself open to "supernatural" guidance; however, he simply believes that it is not the norm today.

Moreover, Friesen does believe that God has a plan and purpose for each believer's life. What he and Maxson argue, however, is that a Christian should not be concerned that what he does is within the will of God unless it is either (a) unbiblical and/or (b) unwise. Being in the will of God, they argue, means being obedient to God's revealed will in Scripture, and being wise in one's decision making. And, as the authors repeatedly affirm, if anyone lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who freely gives (see James 1:5-8).

However, I disagree with Friesen's views on deciding whether one should get married or not, although I do feel glad that he refutes the view that God will "tell" someone whether to get married or not. A better treatment would be found in Debbie Maken's "Getting Serious About Getting Married."

I leave my review with one final note. The children of Israel had it right all along when they affirmed: "The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law" (Deuteronomy 29:29 NKJV). The Lord does have a plan for our lives: It is found in the Word of God. We will be in God's will if we obey that Word and if we walk in wisdom.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2014
I am very happy to review Garry's revised edition, this time because I am using it as a text for a course that I started teaching in September 2014 on decision-making at the College of Biblical Studies, Houston, Texas. I remember Garry asking me a lot of questions about this subject when I was a student at Dallas Theological Seminary ("DTS") -- I think that it was in 1975 or 1976. When Garry was questioning me, he did not tell me that he was writing his dissertation on this subject. At that time I felt like the "Lone Ranger" at DTS -- few other people agreed with my position on decision-making. In fact, at least one famous DTS professor strongly disagreed with me. Years later, in 1983, when I discovered that Garry had published his dissertation as a book, the first edition of this book, I was so "overjoyed" that someone with some credibility held my position that I was "inspired" to rewrite the words of a famous old hymn, and I promptly sent that poem to Garry. Here's what I sent to Garry, in February, 1983:

He leadeth me O solemn thought,
By His own Words in Scripture wrought,
And by His Spirit in my heart,
To do the things I know I ought.

He leadeth me, not magically,
Nor by some vision I would see.
Nor do I study how things are,
To see if He my way does bar.

Sometimes against my will He leads,
Sometimes regardless of my "needs,"
However hard the path may be,
Still 'tis His hand that leadeth me.

He leadeth me O blessed thought,
To do the things I know I ought.
To help me more like Christ to be,
And so for Him wait eagerly.

Perhaps in some miraculous way,
He'll choose to lead again some day.
No matter what He asks of me,
Will I then say, "He leadeth me?"

Tim Headley
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Don Wynne
4.0 out of 5 stars Complexity simplified.
Reviewed in Australia on June 8, 2017
I first read this book about thirty years ago. Since then I've had reason to investigate decision-making in a sectarian context and it's served to raise my level of appreciation for the clarity that Gary Friesen brings to the subject for Christians.
jgp
5.0 out of 5 stars "It seemed good to us
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on November 23, 2014
This book sets out the biblical principles by which Christians should discern God's will. It blows the myth of the 'single dot' which some Christians suggest we should try to find by means of signs and "fleeces" and demonstrates that the Apostles made decisions on the basis of obedience to God's revealed moral will and their own common sense. They said such things as: "It seemed good to us..." The widow in 1 Corinthians 7:39 can marry whoever she wants to, provided the man is "in the Lord". There isn't just one Mr Right. But Paul adds that he thinks she will be happier if she remains as she is. That is to say, that what will make her happy is also to be taken into account. It is also clear from the Book of Acts that God did intervene and give direction on certain occasions, but this was the exception rather than the rule. This is a very thorough examination of this principle in all areas of life. It is well argued and there are examples from Scripture to corroborate every point. It is both easy to read and refreshing in its wisdom and simplicity.The revised edition adds answers to frequently asked questions. For many, this book will bring liberation.
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Michael C.
5.0 out of 5 stars Teaching you to think
Reviewed in Canada on September 20, 2017
Friesen's book was recommended to me in a time crises. I was suffering from, what I now know to be, the typical early-twenty-year-old's decision-making inertia. Much of this was caused from a common understanding of God's will--that is, God speaks to and directs his people, outside of the teachings of the Bible, and that it is their responsibility to listen to and interpret the signs or dreams or the communiqués of the heart that God sends. I believed, through the general climate of Christian education I was receiving, that if I couldn't figure out which school God wanted me to go to and which classes to pick, and which bus to take on the way there, and which shirt to wear, etc., than I was living in rebellion to this secret (but somehow discoverable) will for my life.

Unfortunately, this debilitating sense of failure was made worse by much unbiblical, but pious sounding, advice from well-intention Christians: "Ask God, and he will make it clear to you," "Do you have peace about it?" "What is God telling you to do?" Instead of going to the Scriptures, I had to wrestle inside my own muddled mind, trying to neither screw up my life for good nor be disobedient.

DMatWOG was a huge help to me. It made me look at the Bible and not at my feelings. It relieved me from theological-clichés that I assumed theists must believe about God's will.

Basically, Friesen's thrust is that God has spoken very clearly and unambiguously through his Word: We are to obey his moral will, and he has given us Biblical wisdom while we sort out all the other decisions. Yes and amen.

In the long run, what may have been the greatest help to me was not Friesen's thesis on how a Christian makes decisions, but how a Christian ought to deal with the Bible. He does this by slowly going through many commonly cited verses that seem to support the secret-will-of-God view of decision-making ("God is not a God of confusion but of peace" "Trust in the Lord with all your heart... and he will make your paths straight," or any verse where God tells a biblical character what to do), and does what a good exegete does; he looks at language, context, nuance, use of the text throughout Scripture, and possible meanings before settling on what the text is actually saying. For a young Christian, having someone walk you through this process is an invaluable exercise, and helpful in all areas of life.
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LunarE
5.0 out of 5 stars I'm glad I have my own now
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 5, 2017
I had already read this book years ago, but only had a borrowed copy. I'm glad I have my own now, and I'm enjoying going through it once again. Content: Decision making requires wisdom, much more than it requires miraculous divine signs, fitting circumstances, or an inner feeling of peace.
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William Huget
5.0 out of 5 stars Get it now!
Reviewed in Canada on October 4, 2016
One of the best books on the will of God, a pertinent subject. I appreciate that it is Open Theism friendly :)