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Paula Deen: It Ain't All About the Cookin' Paperback – Illustrated, November 3, 2009
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• A superstar author: Paula Deen is an American icon. She is one of the most popular hosts on the Food Network and with more than 6 million books in print, an expanding restaurant empire, her own line of furniture, cookware, and tableware, Paula’s fame and retail power will only continue to grow..
• Rags-to-riches, the real Paula Deen: Starting with only $200 and plenty of faith and courage, Paula achieved success beyond her wildest dreams. She speaks to readers as frankly about her struggles along the way, including her difficult first marriage and her battle with agoraphobia. .
• Fairy tale marriage: Paula gives all the details on the romance with tugboat captain Michael Groover that ?captured the hearts of fans across the country. .
- Print length304 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateNovember 3, 2009
- Dimensions5.5 x 1.1 x 8.44 inches
- ISBN-101439163359
- ISBN-13978-1439163351
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About the Author
Sherry Suib Cohen has written twenty-one books for major publishers and was a contributing editor at McCall's, Rosie, New Woman, and Lifetime magazines. She regularly writes for periodicals, including Parade, Family Circle, Redbook, Reader's Digest, and Ladies' Home Journal. Cohen is an award-winning member of the American Society of Journalists and Authors and lives with her husband, Larry, in New York City. She makes a great soup.
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Chapter 1
TERROR WITH NO NAME
What did I have, what was makin' me so scared that my heart about beat out of my chest? I just knew I was gonna die, knew my heart couldn't stand this kind of pressure, and it had happened too many times before. Almost every last time I had to go outside by myself, that panic would start in and drop me to my knees. Couldn't breathe, couldn't stop trembling. I felt weak and nauseated and dizzy, and I just knew I was gonna die in front of other people. If I dropped over in public, think how horribly humiliatin' it would be.
But, oh Lord, the magnolias smelled so damn good out my window, and all morning I'd been fixin' to take my eleven-year-old son, Jamie, to baseball practice. After, I figured I'd hang out at the mall store in the housewares section, then maybe go strollin' for a bit, just to breathe deep some of that sweet Georgia air. I wanted to walk through my door so bad and maybe today I could do it; maybe today I could go outside.
There would be no breathin' deep, no goin' outside. The thought of outside grabbed my gut like a 'coon grabs a chicken. I started to sweat and my arms lost all feeling, like they belonged on someone else. At the very least, I was likely to faint at any moment. Would there be someone to see me, someone who would catch me if one of those panicky attacks came back and I lost control and fainted outside? Oh, my stars, I was frightened silly.
It was 1978, and I was thirty-one years old. Was this the day I was finally going to die, the day I'd secretly been waiting for and dreading ever since my daddy passed almost thirteen years ago now?
Well, maybe not, if I stopped thinking of going outside.
You're safe, Paula, I told myself. You're safe inside this house. No one's makin' you go out, you won't die today. Fact is -- don't you remember -- y'all canceled the boys' after-school stuff for the whole year.
What sickness did I have? What had happened to me? My terror had no name -- least none I'd ever heard. I was alone with it. So scared about goin' outside.
It wasn't always this way.
Copyright © 2007 by Paula Deen
Foreword
I never call myself a chef. Never went to Chef School. Never made a Blanquette de Veau. Never met a boxed cake mix I didn't like.
I'm a cook. Learned at my grandmomma's stove. But I can cook, honey, cook rings around those tall-white-hatted chefs.
My fried chicken, my grits -- oh my stars, you'll think you died and went to heaven.
Like everyone else on this earth, there's a story behind the cook, behind the recipes, behind the woman.
So, y'all, here is what the publisher calls my memoirs.
How did they come about? Well, I've written five cookbooks, and after each one, I got thousands of letters from people asking about my personal life, not just my life with grits. Until now, I haven't been about ready to do that. Maybe if you heard the truth about Paula Deen, about the mistakes I made in my life, how bad my judgment's been at times, and how guilty I still feel because my mothering wasn't always so wonderful...well, maybe you wouldn't be quite as lovin' to me as you have been. And that would kill me.
If I could get back one wrong I did to my family, if I could choose some words I could take back and eat 'em down so they would never have seen the light, it would be the day I told my son Jamie I hated him. I can barely write those words now. I love my sons more than life, but we were in the heat of the battle of starting a restaurant business, trying to get all those people fed, and I felt like Jamie was pulling against me, rather than with me. If I could only live that day over, oh, I would. You'd better believe I learned that the spoken word can never be taken back. Sure, you can apologize for it, but you and the person you hurt will never, ever forget. Forgive, maybe, if you're real lucky.
I've asked for a lot of forgiveness in my life and I've given it as well. You know what? In church, they always tell you to forgive your enemies. Seems to me it's even harder to forgive our loved ones and friends, but it's much more important to do so because it's the people we love who can hurt us the most. The terrible thing I said to Jamie taught me to speak with more care and try not to let my instinct for survival get me so mad I'll give pain to someone close to me. But can you imagine me, a mother who loves her boys beyond love, saying such a thing to her own child?
I'll tell you something else: in all the things that have been written about me, there's something that's been left out of the tellin'. I'm a smoker. There, I said it. Hardly anyone outside my family knows that, and it embarrasses me because it's an addiction I can't be quit of, though I try every day. They say Jackie Kennedy was a chain smoker, but she would never allow herself to be photographed with a cigarette -- and I get that real well because I also try my damndest to see that no one takes my picture with one. I love my fans so much and I hate to disappoint them; to see me with such a weakness will surely upset them. I still need to walk into a room where they're waiting with my head up.
But suddenly, somehow, it's time to show and tell -- warts and all. I plan to tell some hard secrets in these pages, but it's taken a long time to get up the nerve to do so. Try ten years. Maybe twenty.
Mostly, I want to share with you that I'm livin' proof that the American dream is alive and well, that you can be an imperfect person and still end up with so much fun in your life you can hardly stand it. I'm prayin' that if even one of you out there gets some inspiration from the way my own American dream turned into reality, it'll be worth playing true confessions here.
You should know this: you gotta be willin' to work for that American dream -- work for it, and feel the passion. You gotta truly be in love with what you do. If you have a wild hair to fly a circus trapeze, to chug out to sea on a tug, to own a restaurant when you haven't much more than a dime to your name, or to search for true love even when you're no spring chicken -- go for it. Sure, luck plays a part, but here's the thing: the harder I work, the luckier I get.
A warning: you may be a little shocked at some of the language in this book, and that's another weakness of mine. I tell people who come to my cooking class that sometimes I can be a little bawdy and I sure hope that don't upset them. But I'm my father's daughter, and I'm banking on one thing, and I'm not budging on this: my God has a sense of humor even if what I say has a four-letter word in it. I think He'd want me to laugh. What's in my heart is not irreverence but a full knowledge that God's laughing too.
So, this is a book wishin' you best dishes from my house to yours, but it's also a look into my home, my true life, my loves, and my Southern heart.
Copyright © 2007 by Paula Deen
Product details
- Publisher : Simon & Schuster (November 3, 2009)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 304 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1439163359
- ISBN-13 : 978-1439163351
- Item Weight : 9.9 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 1.1 x 8.44 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,895,929 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,933 in Southern U.S. Cooking, Food & Wine
- #14,991 in Actor & Entertainer Biographies
- #19,970 in Women's Biographies
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About the authors
Paula Deen has sold over 11 million copies of her 18 cookbooks. Deen’s first live tour, “Paula Deen Live!” commenced in June 2014, and featured cooking demonstrations, games, and stories with Paula and her fans. The Lady & Sons, the Savannah, Georgia restaurant Paula founded with her sons, Jamie and Bobby Deen, remains one of the country’s most popular regional restaurants. In 2015, Paula launched her first free mobile game, Paula Deen’s Recipe Quest, in addition to her podcast, What’s Cooking with Paula Deen, and radio show, Get Cooking with Paula Deen. That same year, Paula premiered her first show on EVINE Live and launched a pet food line with Hugs called Paula Deen Hugs Premium Select Pet Food. In the fall of 2015, Paula released her cookbook, Paula Deen Cuts The Fat: 250 Favorite Recipes All Lightened Up, which reached The New York Times Best Sellers List in under a week. Simultaneously, she competed in the twenty-first season of ABC’s hit show “Dancing with the Stars,” and successfully made it halfway through the competition. Her upcoming book, At the Southern Table with Paula Deen, features 150 classic recipes and will be released on September 26, 2017. During the last couple of years, Paula has opened four new restaurants, including Paula Deen’s Family Kitchen in Pigeon Forge, TN and Myrtle Beach, SC; Paula Deen’s The Bag Lady in Pigeon Forge, TN and Paula Deen’s Creek House in Savannah, GA. She recently launched her new syndicated lifestyle show, Positively Paula. Deen’s robust social media following includes Facebook (4,588,636 likes), Twitter (1.44 million followers) and Pinterest (284,300 followers). Paula Deen Ventures is headquartered in Savannah, Georgia, with offices in New York.
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I admire Paula Deen because I believe she has a success story from which we can all learn a lesson or two. I am fascinated by the success of others. I like cheering for the underdog and the good guys. To me, Paula Deen's success story is right up there with the best. Her book Paula Deen A Memoir - It Ain't All About The Cookin' is an inspiration to all of us who aren't so perfect, who've made some big mistakes and yet, know we want to succeed and find happiness in our life.
If you're looking for a Pollyanna story, this isn't it. If you're looking for sweet talking motivation, this isn't it. If you are looking for a real-world story about overcoming depression, anxiety and having the unstoppable determination to succeed then this is the book for you.
I congratulate Paula Deen for telling us the real story and not holding back. Nothing is sugar coated when she tells us about her marriage, her anxiety attacks, her age and her depression. Thank goodness she writes the way she speaks, open and honest and with a great sense of humor. Paula tells us about an everyday woman who lived, loved and messed up. She's a real woman making real mistakes and some bad choices. She found the answers and the deep-down motivation to pull herself out of the abyss and make her dreams come true. In that story, there is a powerful lesson for all of us to learn.
This is a book about personal and professional success. If you're going through a bad time in life right now, I suggest you carefully read and "feel" the lessons in this book. If you're thinking of starting your own business, I suggest you read about Paula's trials and tribulations carefully. If you're in business already, you'll enjoy this great success story. If you're a cook, you'll enjoy Paula's recipes at the end of each chapter.
I recommend you take your time and read this book when you can give it your full attention. Paula Deen A Memoir - It Ain't All About The Cookin' has many self-development and success-oriented lessons. I think what really struck me was Paula Deen's tenacity. I applaud her ability to pick herself up and make things happen for the better.
Her success seems to be a combination of hard work and coincidences. But all of us who believe in self-development know there really are no coincidences. Nothing happens by accident - something we are consciously or unconsciously believing, affirming or thinking is drawing these coincidences into our lives. I particularly enjoyed the stories of how the right people at the right time appeared in her life to offer her the right opportunities for success.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who is going through a life-change, depression, anxiety attacks, and divorce or contemplating beginning your own business. There are valuable lessons to be learned from Paula Deen's successes and mistakes. Paula Deen is a true personal and professional American success story. Thank you Paula Deen for sharing your story with all of us!
I knew this woman had a story and I tell you she is more of an inspiration to me now than ever before. The trials and tribulations this woman has overcome from 20 years having
agoraphobia to her little boys stealing candy for food to the the gazillionaire she is today.
One excerpt from her book that will shock you. In addition to be married to an alcohol husband, both of her parents had passed, she never left her house for at least 20 years, kids stealing chocolate bars for food, she just .........divorced her husband Jimmy Deen of 27 years, the house went into foreclosure and had a 10 year affair with a married man (who would bring his wife into her restaurant to eat during those 10 years)...... she also suffered from depression.
Her depression was so bad that one night she came in late from working at the very 1st kitchen she rented at the Best Western to make dinner plates to sell for profit.
Anyway, she came home one late night and she admitted to not cleaning her home, because she was so depressed at how bad it had gotten, so she didn't bother to clean up or clean up after her birds who ate the same things she at, chicken wings, mac n cheese and butter beans, plus a whole bunch of droppings were everywhere. She turned on her bedroom light and flopped over her bed from exhaustion that evening. She then saw a huge black mass slowly move under her bed. She screamed and lifted her bed spread to see better, it was a mass of black, wiggling, shiny cockroaches with a million legs all running together scurrying fast. She said they were under her bed feeding, breeding the size of a dinner plate. She said she watched those bugs disappear in dark underbelly of her bed spread and into her bed springs.
She said," I didn't have anywhere else to go y'all". So she crawled back into the roach-infested bed and bedroom, cried all night and couldn't stop until she feel asleep.....She said that was when she hit rock bottom.
OMG!! I was in tears when I read this........This book is truly inspirational and a must read. I wrote her a thank you letter for writing the book and she sent me this.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 22, 2011
I knew this woman had a story and I tell you she is more of an inspiration to me now than ever before. The trials and tribulations this woman has overcome from 20 years having
agoraphobia to her little boys stealing candy for food to the the gazillionaire she is today.
One excerpt from her book that will shock you. In addition to be married to an alcohol husband, both of her parents had passed, she never left her house for at least 20 years, kids stealing chocolate bars for food, she just .........divorced her husband Jimmy Deen of 27 years, the house went into foreclosure and had a 10 year affair with a married man (who would bring his wife into her restaurant to eat during those 10 years)...... she also suffered from depression.
Her depression was so bad that one night she came in late from working at the very 1st kitchen she rented at the Best Western to make dinner plates to sell for profit.
Anyway, she came home one late night and she admitted to not cleaning her home, because she was so depressed at how bad it had gotten, so she didn't bother to clean up or clean up after her birds who ate the same things she at, chicken wings, mac n cheese and butter beans, plus a whole bunch of droppings were everywhere. She turned on her bedroom light and flopped over her bed from exhaustion that evening. She then saw a huge black mass slowly move under her bed. She screamed and lifted her bed spread to see better, it was a mass of black, wiggling, shiny cockroaches with a million legs all running together scurrying fast. She said they were under her bed feeding, breeding the size of a dinner plate. She said she watched those bugs disappear in dark underbelly of her bed spread and into her bed springs.
She said," I didn't have anywhere else to go y'all". So she crawled back into the roach-infested bed and bedroom, cried all night and couldn't stop until she feel asleep.....She said that was when she hit rock bottom.
OMG!! I was in tears when I read this........This book is truly inspirational and a must read. I wrote her a thank you letter for writing the book and she sent me this.
[...]
I loved this book and found it VERY inspiring. Deen came from a rather modest background and she didn't have a lot of self-esteem. She married a handsome hunk of a guy, had two gorgeous boys and found herself in a mess of trouble, with a man who couldn't make ends meet and leading a hardscrabble existence. She lost her parents and felt lost, alone and very scared. Her home was repossessed. A lot of people would have given up at that point but she did not. Working nearly round the clock, she slowly built up her business.....very slowly, but steadily.
But out of her adversity, one step at a time, she learned to make it. Along the way, she made lots of mistakes but she kept persevering.
In all honesty, some readers may have trouble with some of values and decisions made by Deen but I didn't judge her a bit. We are all human and we all have our ups and downs. I find her indefatable resilience to be amazing.
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It's a brutally honest, down-to-earth account that includes some nice recipes and lots and lots of grit.