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Walking Outside the Box Paperback – November 3, 2006
- Print length228 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherOutskirts Pr
- Publication dateNovember 3, 2006
- Dimensions5.98 x 0.52 x 9.02 inches
- ISBN-101432700480
- ISBN-13978-1432700485
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My mama had her first bout of cancer at the age of 40. I was sixteen. I graduated early from high school and worked part-time for a doctor at the University of North Carolina Medical School. I was biding my time to start college, for even I knew I was too young at sixteen. When I wasn't working, I was helping out with Mama. She'd contracted hepatitis from a blood transfusion after her mastectomy. I won't go so far as to say I ran the house for her, I didn't. But I did what I was asked and helped where I could, and one thing was to keep her company as she lay in bed on doctor's orders while her liver healed.
Her second bout was two years later: a new tumor in the same place as the last one. I had just finished my first year in college. We spent the summer together in a small apartment in Houston, Texas while she underwent radiation treatments. Mama was raised in Houston. I met many people from her childhood and relatives I probably would have never met otherwise. She handled her treatments bravely, and by summer's end she seemed to be free of the disease.
Mama was a large lady. Her illnesses didn't help. It also didn't help that she was one of the best cooks anyone could know. And she always cooked. I remember lean years when Papa was in graduate school, but once they were better established, food at our table was not only delicious but abundant. We were raised in a home of over-eating. Food was about celebration. Extra people were forever surfacing at our table, sometimes even displacing various ones of us from our bedrooms while they "stayed awhile." People loved my parents' parties. Out of the seven of us (parents and kids), there was one thin brother. I won't say I was fat because I wasn't, but the habit of eating a lot was nurtured in me early and that didn't seem so bad when my metabolism was racing along in my teen years. Things change.
I went back to college, but I was not without fear for her and by the spring semester I was not happy with the gloom of the Indiana winter. I left one school and started another, in Colorado, closer to home. That didn't last either. Wandering was becoming second nature to me. I ended up going to New Mexico State where my father was on faculty. I lived at home. I wasn't going to let go of Mama any easier than she was going to let go of me, I guess.
Time passed, I graduated, found a job in Dallas, my dad took a sabbatical to St. Mary's College in South Bend, IN. It was the school I'd started at. Full circle. It would be Mama's last home. I went back to South Bend in January 1978 with the full knowing that she was in her final battle. She was gone by late May, just after her 48th birthday. It was my challenge and lifelong blessing to have cared for her in her last six weeks. Thinking of her still makes me cry. Her death is probably the one single event in my life that has had the most influence over who I am today. Grieving is never really done, it just gets easier to handle. That is one of my philosophies. I believe it to be true.
Everyone who loved my family and my mama wanted to feed us when she was gone. We were invited to numerous tables, by cooks with varying culinary abilities. But we had been well taught in the way of being guests and we always cleaned our plates. It is a hard habit to break. We sat with friends at their tables, and we tried to eat away our grief. We all grew larger, except for the thin brother, and his is another whole story that I choose not to tell. After all, this is about my journey.
Before I move onto the next part of this story I would like to quote some of Mama's philosophies as they are worth sharing. They are things I have heard countless times. One she even painted on a board and hung over the door between kitchen and den.
"The measure of true love is love without measure."
"Honey, go out into this world and when you face it, be yourself and nothing can beat you."
"Every old crow thinks her baby is the blackest."
"You can do anything you set your mind to."
Mama had a way of sharing strength. It's just taken me a long time to figure out how much.
Product details
- Publisher : Outskirts Pr (November 3, 2006)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 228 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1432700480
- ISBN-13 : 978-1432700485
- Item Weight : 12 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.98 x 0.52 x 9.02 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #10,172,135 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #33,722 in Sports Biographies (Books)
- #219,849 in Memoirs (Books)
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About the author
"My professional biography is too long for this space. My first attempt at a modified bio was more like a resume - not too exciting. So I sat and looked around my studio as if the space would lend me inspiration.
I am a married mother of four grown children. I have been or still am a photographer, a greeting card artist, a ceramic artist, a race director, a distance walker, an adventurer.
Summer '07 I completed a solo-backpacking hike of nearly 200 miles in the Arctic Circle of Lapland, Sweden. It was my longest hike to date. It was lifechanging.
I am planning a walk of some 300 miles for spring '08. I will do this to promote the sport of walking for fitness and because to me such a walk is the ideal fun and adventure.
My studio is where I write. It is a space that lends itself to creativity. I recently put together a large collage. Photos from places I've walked and sayings of my own or others adorn the large cork boards adhered to my storage cupboard doors.
In lieu of a lengthy bio, I will share with you some of the sayings in my collage. Perhaps they will tell you something of me.
- ""It's better to do something than to do nothing."" me
- ""She doesn't look the sort."" a neighbor's comment to my husband upon learning of my plans for the Arctic
- ""If adventures were easy, they'd not be special."" me
- ""Rejoice for you are here."" the opening page on my GPS
- ""I'd rather go alone than not go at all."" me
- ""Laugh Freely, Walk Far"" most likely the title of my next book
- ""Bite me...everything else has."" My response to the bugs in the Arctic.
- ""If you can't stand to fight, then fight on your knees."" General Seneca, ancient Rome
- ""Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will not grow."" Ronald E. Osborn
- ""Tourism is sin, and travel on foot, virtue. It is as simple as that."" Werner Herzog
- ""Always take the bridge."" me after a cold wet encounter with a river in the Arctic
- ""Walking takes me places."" me
- ""You can choose between being a victim of destiny or an adventurer who is fighting for something important."" Paolo Coelho
- ""Hey, Mom and Dad, we're like the 300, only without the two zeoes. And we didn't die."" my youngest child, Gabe Reynolds, Feb. '07 after we won our fight against racism in the local high school"
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I did not give this book a five star rating because it will never be a classic. It does not contain the detail and the thought-provoking comments needed to reach that level. Nonethless, it was an enjoyable book to read and I consider the purchase to be a good investment.
Learning why Susan walks is like connecting the dots of her life journey:
--"Grieving is never really done, it just gets easier to handle."
--"Mama had a way of sharing strength. It's just taken me a long time to figure out how much."
--"instinctively we knew that to really know a place it must be walked. There is an ownership that comes from payment through many footfalls."
--"I was the woman who had rowed the Viking ship and who now fit into size eight jeans."
--"For those of us with ancestors who were pioneers moving west, it is as if we have walking in our genes."
--"I have experienced that wonderful sensation of 'flow' when my body moves effortlessly and the miles click away."
--"what a gift it would be for me to hike at my own pace, with no one waiting for me. A hike in the forest on a mountain all alone--it was perfect!"
But even when Susan is alone on a forested mountain we share her company, and conversation.
Reading this book is like taking a long walk with her, across years and continents and the inevitable life changes. She sets the route and the pace, reader, so all you need to do is heed your eyes and your ears and your legs and chime in when inspired.
But Susan Reynolds is, in her own words, ordinary. As her progression begins from obese homemaker to developing her art career and taking long walks while on an artists' retreat in Europe, you can't help but be endeared to her efforts, and most of all to identify with her joys and struggles, and then begin to think ... "Well ... hey ... I may be overweight and not sure what to do with my life, but I could do some walking ..."
By the time you follow Susan through to the end of the book, it seems perfectly achievable for you, too, to at least get fit and love doing it, or maybe even travel around the world enjoying doing ultramarathon races.
Just as Susan took this journey and so many others were encouraged to do the same, from taking up walking to taking part in her exquisite 38-mile event staged from her own home, there's no doubt that whatever you are inspired to do from her book will, in turn, inspire others to join you.
I met the author in Honolulu just before running their Marathon. I resonated with Susan on a number of levels including as an artist and a walker. As someone who has done some serious walking over the past couple of years (including walking the Camino de Santiago), I can appreciate the time alone, the beauty of the world which so many people miss and the creative regeneration that one gets by walking - all things that Susan shares in the book.
I have shared the book with a couple of friends who are planning to experience some of the walks. Both myself and another friend are doing the Great Lake Walk mentioned in this book in 2007.
MJF