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God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door: Reaching the Heart of the Gay Men and Women in Your World Paperback – September 1, 2006

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Author Alan Chambers--a former homosexual himself--and four of his colleagues at Exodus International offer practical and biblical insights on how both individuals and churches can become a haven for homosexuals seeking freedom from same-sex attraction.

In this comprehensive guide to helping homosexuals, readers will learn about:

  • The roots of homosexuality
  • God's radical grace for sexual sinners
  • Reaching youth both within and outside the church
  • Dealing with fear and ignorance in the church
  • Leading gays to Christ
  • Mentoring homosexuals in the church
  • Three degrees of homosexuality: militant, moderate or repentant
  • Five things not to do in reaching out to gays

and much more about this often perplexing subject.

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“One of the great movements in our time is that of the ex-homosexuals and ex-lesbians. These are broken people who have admitted their brokenness and found true happiness--not the so-called ‘gay' lifestyle--but by living for Jesus Christ. One such man is Alan Chambers, currently president of the largest umbrella organization of ex-homosexuals, Exodus International. Alan Chambers' book provides believers with Christian and loving (but uncompromising) answers to this controversial issue.”
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D. James Kennedy, Ph.D., senior minister, Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church

“I can't think of anyone more knowledgeable to lead someone out of sexual bondage than Alan Chambers. He is a man of integrity and compassion. His heart, life, and words are full of wisdom. He has personally touched my life with his kindness and love for God. It is friends like Alan I want everyone to get to know. In order to introduce you to this godsend to our nation, I highly recommend
God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door.”
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Dennis Jernigan, composer, author, former homosexual

“If you're a believer who's touched by this issue--and these days, who isn't?-- then you'll be as excited as I am about this book. It doesn't come a moment too soon.”
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Joe Dallas, author of Desires in Conflict and The Game Plan

“This is a wonderful book--unapologetic truth wrapped with tenderness and compassion. I'm grateful to Alan Chambers and his associates for providing the biblical and practical insight and help the church needs. I'm thankful for this book and enthusiastically recommend it to you.”
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Dr. Robert Wolgemuth, author of She Calls Me Daddy

“I am so grateful this book is finally available. With wisdom, knowledge, and grace, Alan offers those who struggle with their sexuality and those who love them a place to stand. It is with other broken people, welcomed into the life changing love of God. For those who long to understand the heart of God to the homosexual community and how to share that love, this book is a gift.”
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Sheila Walsh, Women of Faith keynote speaker

“It's an excellent resource book, whether you're a Christian concerned about your homosexual friends and family members, or if you're involved in a church that's willing to minister. Christ died for everyone. We sin when, through hatred or fear we refuse to minister to the lost just because they make us uncomfortable. Alan Chamber's
God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door is an important resource for anyone interested in taking the gospel to the homosexual community, and one I strongly recommend.”
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Barbara Warren, author

“Thank you for being so open and real with your readers and for showing the church how to have the same compassion toward others as Christ has toward each of us.”
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Shannon Ethridge, MA

From the Author

This book was my first and published in 2006. As most authors will admit, my views on this subject have changed dramatically in the decade-plus since it was written. To be clear, I believe everyone has a right to self-determine their own path in coming to terms with their sexuality. However, my experience has shown that sexual orientation change is not possible and any process or person advocating such a change should be avoided entirely.My latest book, My Exodus: From Fear to Grace (Zondervan, 2015) reflects my current views and story. You can find it here: amazon.com/My-Exodus-Grace-Alan-Chambers/dp/0310342481/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1542192275&sr=8-1&keywords=my+exodus+from+fear+to+grace&dpID=51Wrkwj8XaL&preST=_SY291_BO1,204,203,200_QL40_&dpSrc=srch Additionally, you may contact me via AlanChambers.org 

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harvest House Publishers; 1st edition (September 1, 2006)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 288 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0736916911
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0736916912
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 12 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.75 x 8.5 inches
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Alan served as the final president of Exodus International from 2001 to 2013 when together with a core team of leaders and board of directors he closed the organization and began making great strides towards building relationships with the LGBTQIA community and encouraging the global Church to do the same. With a goal to reduce fear, establish trust, and inspire hope on both sides for the sake of the Gospel, Alan and his wife, Leslie, spend their time being available to anyone who desires to talk. He has been featured on every major media outlet across the globe. Alan and Leslie’s first book together, My Exodus: From FEAR to GRACE (Zondervan, 2015) is is available on Amazon.

Follow Alan on www.Twitter.com/AlanMChambers and www.instagram.com/alanmchambers and www.facebook.com/alanmanningchambers--Support The Alan and Leslie Chambers Foundation: http://PayPal.me/SpeakLove

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Reviewed in the United States on April 15, 2009
Yes, buy the book, do all you can do to help your children. This was in response to a review on another book, but as a mother of a practicing homosexual son, I would encourage parents, to not give up, to endure. Continue to love and pray for them. Get information (good Biblical info). Be careful who gives you information. Sometimes we would rather believe a lie in order to feel more comfort with our children's situation. This is a spiritual battle.

MY RESPONSE: I notice you used the word 'wickedness' to describe the Biblical principle that you say is 'destructive and harmful'. The Bible says in Isaiah 5:20, Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter. In Genesis, it clearly states that the men that committed sodomy were wicked and sinners before the Lord exceedingly. It also says in Leviticus, If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. The Bible also says in (along with may other places such as Rom 1) 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters, nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God?

Again I notice you used another Biblical phrase (wolf in sheep's clothing) to accuse those who stand by the Word of God, calling it 'spiritual and emotional abuse'. Actually in Matthew 7, the referral of wolves in sheep's clothing is about those who teach or prophesy things that are against the truth, against the Word of God.

I would like to say, as a mother of 8, that I have first hand knowledge of the harm homosexuality causes those who practice it. As a person who has seen friend's die because of the pursuit of this lifestyle. My oldest who has chosen to PRACTICE homosexuality, (notice it is about practicing it) that I have seen his life spiral into devastation. He now has HIV. My son, my baby... has been a victim of emotional and spiritual abuse. By the worse kind of perpetrator. The enemy, the devil, the father of lies, who will tell you a lie, who will use the scripture to try to twist the lie into what sounds like truth. As he did from the beginning of time, when he twisted God's word with Eve. If you don't believe the Word of God to be true, you will have to take it up with the Lord. And you will one day, face to face, and you will then see fully and clearly. Hopefully, it won't be too late for you or someone else, or for your daughter, who I am sure you love, as I do my children. A friend will tell you the truth as I believe these books are trying to do. The wounds of a friend are faithful, the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 12, 2016
This book was an excellent step along the way for me in the process of coming out of an extremely conservative, fundamentalist perspective on homosexuality. Although Alan Chambers and the other authors have now repudiated some aspects of the message of this book, I still see it as a valuable stepping-stone for those with a traditional Christian perspective, to see homosexuals as real people, rather than some faceless group of "sinners," and to understand that they have real stories and lives and loves.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 18, 2008
Too often the rhetoric of the far right makes us as Christians unloving and condemning toward a group of people that we don't even know, other than the stereotype of the extreme gay activist. We as Christians wouldn't want to be identified by the extremist, hate-filled people who bomb abortion clinics or who carry signs stating that God hates gays, any more than the average homosexual individual identifies with this extremist portrayal. This book encourages us to set aside our fear and our pre-conceived ideas and get to know our co-workers and neighbors...and to show them the love of Christ, which He gives freely to all of us as sinners.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 14, 2010
This book is truly a blessing. I need the sequel.
"God's Grace and the Muslim or Hindu next door." We must not mind our own business and intrude into their lives and shove our Chosen, Practiced lifestyle down their throats.

I hope Santa Clause will agree with me in saying the sequel will help me in dealing with people that have NCAD (Non Christ Attraction Disorder), it is not scientifically documented, I just made it up like Same-Sex Attraction Disorder. The sequel will bring the FIRE errr.... I mean light of Christ to people the don't believe in him. I will walk up to thier house a FLAUNT my CHRISTIAN LIFESTYLE choice in the face of gays and non Christians and show them how the FIRE of Christ can bring them salvation because their "GOD/S" are fake and Not real, and don't deserve my respect.
I hope the next book after that teaches me how to become a better person too. For the longest time I have suffered from Opposite Sex Attraction Disorder. It is truly horrible. I want cause my wife pain by rupturing her hymn. I must find a way to deal with these destructive feelings.

These destructive feelings of practicing heterosexuality have lead my wife into a horrible life. For you see I live in Africa, were the people that have HIV are heterosexual. The sinner by a previous divorce, my wife, had her first sexual experience and was infected through french kissing a man with AIDS. (I keep telling her that she does not need her pills, just unrelenting prayer.) And since Practicing the Heterosexual lifestyle is the cause of HIV in Africa (forget about safe sex) I have been trying to make as many Africans Gay. Because if you can make the gays straight in America to save them from HIV, then I can make straights gay to save them from HIV in Africa.

Furthermore, I will be interested in the suggestions Alan Chambers has for converting my non Christian neighbors. I have a couple ideas. (Sieg Trinity)
-First we make the wear red circles. (This is to tell society, Moral Christian society Only, who need to be proselytized to. These people will receive extra help.
-Second If the have not converted by then we can turn their homes in to community Churchs to honor god. This will allow them to be in the house of the Lord even when their at home.
-Third. If they still have not converted then we should give them a break a ship them be rail car to Jesus Camp.
-Forth. At Jesus Camp they will have Ovens (for food), Electrified fences (to keep them safe, think ultra high voltage security system), a gas...err I mean showers with Aroma therapy. I hear Zyklon B is a popular fragrance.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 11, 2012
I am the grandmother of a recently proclaimed lesbian. I wanted to learn as much as I could from someone that has successfully repented of homexuality. He has authored many books most of which I have read. I want to lean as much as I can in order to help my granddaughter know who she is in Christ. I want to react the way God wants me to. May all of us be a blessing and not add to the goals of our enemy Satan. God be with us all as we are determine to walk in the love of Jesus.
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