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Dr. Laura Schlessinger, the incredibly popular and controversial psychotherapist who hosts a nationally syndicated, top-rated midday radio talk show, has strong convictions and doesn't hesitate to voice them to callers.

She urges women emphatically to lose a domineering jerk of a lover and pick one of the "good guys," to stay home and parent the babies they've made, and to follow the dream rather than some dreamboat. Above all, she exhorts women not to blame anybody or anything but themselves if they're unhappy and their lives seem a mess.

10 Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives uses real-world examples from Schlessinger's radio show and private practice to drive the message home: once we muster the courage to take responsibility for our own problems and to tolerate the discomforts of risk, the possibilities for personal growth and joy are limitless.

If you're prepared to take a clear-eyed look at your self-diminishing behavior and to make the move to a quality existence, there's no one better than Schlessinger to keep you honest and to cheer you on. One thing's for sure: You'll never look at your relationships, behaviors and decisions the same way after you've finished reading this book.

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Dr. Laura Schlessinger is the incredibly popular and controversial psychotherapist who hosts a nationally syndicated, top-rated midday radio talk show. She has strong convictions and doesn't hesitate to voice them to callers. She urges women emphatically to lose a domineering jerk of a lover and pick one of the "good guys," to stay home and parent the babies they've made, and to follow the dream rather than some dreamboat. Above all, she exhorts women not to blame anybody or anything but themselves if they're unhappy and their lives seem a mess.

10 Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives uses real-world examples from Schlessinger's radio show and private practice to drive the message home. And the message is that our reticence to be bold and brave often makes us act like stupid, submissive victims. Once we muster the courage to take responsibility for our own problems and to tolerate the discomforts of risk, the possibilities for personal growth and joy are limitless.

If you're looking for an all-approving hand to hold, you won't find it here. If you're prepared to take a clear-eyed look at your self-diminishing behavior and to make the move to a quality existence, there's no one better than Schlessinger to keep you honest and to cheer you on. One thing's for sure: You'll never look at your relationships, behaviors and decisions the same way after you've finished reading this book.

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One of the most popular hosts in radio history—with millions of listeners weekly—Dr. Laura Schlessinger has been offering no-nonsense advice infused with a strong sense of personal responsibility for more than 40 years. Her internationally syndicated radio program is now on SiriusXM Triumph Channel 111, and is streamed on the Internet and podcast.


She's a best-selling author of eighteen books, which range from the provocative (New York Times chart topper The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands) to the poignant (children's book Why Do You Love Me?).  She's on Instagram and Facebook (with over 1.7 million followers), and her Call of the Day podcast has exceeded one hundred million downloads. She has raised millions for veterans and their families with her boutique, DrLauraDesigns.com, which benefits the Children of Fallen Patriots Foundation.


Dr. Laura holds a Ph.D. in physiology from Columbia University's College of Physicians and Surgeons, and received her post-doctoral certification in Marriage, Family, and Child Counseling from the University of Southern California. She was in private practice for 12 years. She has been inducted into the National Radio Hall of Fame, received an award from the Office of the Secretary of Defense for her Exceptional Public Service, and was the first woman ever to win the National Association of Broadcasters' prestigious Marconi Award for Network/Syndicated Personality.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ 0060976497
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper Perennial (December 3, 2002)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 256 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9780060976491
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0060976491
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 7.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.31 x 0.58 x 8 inches
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As one of the most popular talk show hosts in radio history, Dr. Laura Schlessinger offers no-nonsense advice infused with a strong sense of ethics, accountability, and personal responsibility; she’s been doing it successfully for more than 40 years, reaching millions of listeners weekly.

She received her Ph.D. in physiology from Columbia University and holds a post-doctoral certification from the University of Southern California and licensing in Marriage and Family Therapy. In 2018, she was named to the National Radio Hall of Fame. She is the author of 13 New York Times bestsellers, including "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage."

Her internationally syndicated radio program has been heard exclusively on Sirius/XM Radio’s Stars Channel 109 since 2011 and is also available via streaming, download and podcast on www.drlaura.com.

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Barbara Grace
5.0 out of 5 stars Interesting read!
Reviewed in the United States on March 27, 2024
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All Women should listen to her show and read this book! It’s interesting and I have learned something new. Some is common sense but a good read. I def plan on buying more of her books.
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Ellen K Edmeades
5.0 out of 5 stars Every woman should read this book
Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2024
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Dr. Schlesinger makes so much sense every woman should read this book
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5.0 out of 5 stars Great gift to any woman, any age.
Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2024
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Dr. Laura is beyond brilliant. This book can be a life changer.
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Patricia L Baker
5.0 out of 5 stars Great advice
Reviewed in the United States on May 9, 2019
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I bought this book for my granddaughter, who needed some advice outside those that are close to her. Often times, good advice is easier accepted by an complete outsider. I have never read this book, but have read others by Dr. Laura, so I knew the truths in it would be down to earth and right. My granddaughter has thanked me several times and told me the book has changed her thinking and her life. She has now followed up with 2 other books by Dr. Laura that she seems to be getting a lot from. I recommend not only this book, but any of Dr. Laura's books to everyone.
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M Katayama
4.0 out of 5 stars For Those Who Want to Reflect on Themselves
Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2004
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Dr. Laura gives it to you straight in this no nonsense book. While most people wouldn't have the guts to be this brutally honest and constructively critical, Dr. Laura goes where no one else dares to go. So many other self help books are too concerned about being politically correct and candy coating topics, that in the end you feel like you don't gain anything. But whether you like her or not, everything she says is actually true. This book will remind you of times in your life (and it's happened to all of us) when a family member or friend tells us something we don't want to hear but deep down inside we actually know is true. Dr. Laura is also a very logical person, so much of her opinions and advice is not hard to follow. I recommend this book to anybody in search of learning more about themselves and how they can improve themselves.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A great read
Reviewed in the United States on October 3, 2021
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This book was written a few decades ago, but the information still applies to the modern day woman and our young adults. Woman are natural nurturers. We need to be more in tune with self awareness, take time to identify our traumas, and work through our own healing process instead of believing that a relationship with a significant other will make all else disappear. This book teaches you the signs to pay attention to and the “why” as the reason to not give yourself to someone first. Put the oxygen mask on “You” first to save You, to figure You out before you began doing the most for someone else.
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Chris G
5.0 out of 5 stars She’s right.
Reviewed in the United States on July 23, 2021
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Some people think Dr. Laura is mean & very conservative. She’s actually not, she has tattoos & rides a motorcycle. If u listen to her radio show on Sirius, she gives sound, smart advise and gives it to them in the way people need to hear it. She’s not a wussy. She won’t sugar coat it. I thought she was a jerk the first time I heard her. Then, I realized it was me that was delusional. I think every girl should read this book starting at puberty. I gave it to my daughters 12 & 15 after I read it and so glad I did.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Not just for adults, get your teenage daughters to read this!!
Reviewed in the United States on June 20, 2016
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This book is the counterpart to Dr. Laura's radio show where the common questions of relationships (wether platonic or intimate)are asked and sustantial advice from dr Laura is reciprocated. This book is ideal for any woman including teenagers, embarking on new relationships, life choices, and everyday haphazards that most people encounter. Dr Laura sets you straight with tried and true methods that many of her listeners can attest to having helped them in a struggle or pivotal decision. These life lesson teachings can benefit even those who are successful and happy by presenting situations to watch out for. The book does not lay out hypothetical situations but more real life interactions that are commonplace as well as those situations which are less frequent. A very good read for any woman adolescent to senior
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JGT
5.0 out of 5 stars Smart Woman
Reviewed in Canada on January 28, 2019
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Bought it for my adult daughter. Don't know if she will ever read it. I hope so, Dr. Laura is right on point.
You can lead a horse to water.... but you can not make it drink.
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VINIVIDIVINCI
5.0 out of 5 stars A Well Worth it reading!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 27, 2014
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I found this books interesting to read, especially if you are at a crossroad and need a little push to take decisions...

Excellent examples of real stories and real problems, in a very light hearted yet with realistic expectations, easily miss by the female population around the world!.

I enjoyed it indeed.
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nana
5.0 out of 5 stars 理想の男性を手に入れるには・・・自分が理想の女性になる！
Reviewed in Japan on May 8, 2003
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女性向けの本、もちろん、理想の女性を探している男性諸君にもおすすめでもあります。
世間には、理想の男性の心を射止める本がおそらく山のようにあるでしょう。そこにかかれている内容は「どのような男性が自分を幸せにしてくれるか」見極めるノウハウ、その男性をいとめるノウハウの数々・・・。
しかしドクターローラは違います。厳しくユーモラスにこういいきります。
「理想の恋愛がしたい、結婚がしたい、家庭をもちたい？
じゃあ聞くけど、あなたは理想の女性なの？？？」
「さっきから男の悪口ばかりいっているけど、あなたは正しいことをやっていると胸を張っていえるわけ？どうよ？？」
「うう・・・そ、それは・・・」と身につまされる場所も多々あり、非常に面白くリズム感がある簡!単な英語でかかれているのでお勧めです。おもしろくってためになって一気に読める、女性として凛と生きていくための10の秘策。厳しいだけではなく、自分の幸せを手にいれるため、不必要な傷で心を痛めないように守備するヒントもちりばめられた傑作です。
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 10, 2019
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The book arrived on time though it looks very old, but will still read it.
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Michele Belle
5.0 out of 5 stars Bought for a friend
Reviewed in Canada on May 28, 2017
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So I've been buying Dr Laura books for my close friends. They tell me their problems and I hand them her book lol. Love you Dr Laura and thanks for all you do <3
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