Authors: Barbara Delinsky
ISBN-13: 9780743431378, ISBN-10: 0743431375
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group
Date Published: May 2003
Edition: Updated Edition
Barbara Delinsky started out her writing career creating novels for the category romance genre, partly under pseudonyms; but she has evolved into a name-brand all her own, praised by romance fans for the layered plotting and the complex characters on display in literally dozens of bestsellers.
Barbara Delinsky, whose life has been shaped by her mother's breast cancer as well as her own, has created the book she wished had existed when she went through her treatment.
Delinsky (A Woman's Place), a prolific popular novelist, lost her mother to breast cancer and is herself a survivor of the disease. This practical guide is a worthy addition to recent literature about how individual women deal with this illness, like Jennie Nash's The Victoria's Secret Catalog Never Stops Coming (reviewed above). Delinsky has collected a compendium of survival secrets "that have nothing to do with doctors, machines or drugs and everything to do with women helping women" that she wished had been available to her when she was diagnosed in 1994. She offers short personal anecdotes contributed by breast cancer survivors of every age and background. They recount the strategies that helped them through all aspects of cancer, including diagnosis, treatment, support groups and how to best conduct relationships with family, friends and in the workplace. Upbeat in tone, the women share such tips as the types of deodorants that may be used during radiation, how to handle hair loss ("I called my hair dresser and had the remainder of my hair buzzed off.... My buzzed head represented strength and control"), what foods will lessen nausea and, in general, how to take charge of one's life and remain positive. Almost everyone will find something in this varied advice that applies to her particular situation. Several women, for example, thought that hiring a professional to clean for them was extremely beneficial during draining treatments, while another found the mindless "therapy" involved in weeding the garden helpful. Delinsky also contributes several reminiscences, e.g., of her determination to remain physically strong and emotionally healthy after her diagnosis. (Oct.) Copyright 2001Cahners Business Information.
Foreword | VII | |
Foreword to the Paperback Edition | XIX | |
1 | On Diagnosis: First Things First | 1 |
2 | Losing a Breast: Practical and Emotional | 21 |
3 | Radiation: Soaking Up the Rays | 41 |
4 | Chemo and Hair: Mane Matters | 57 |
5 | Chemo and Everything Else: A Smorgasbord | 85 |
6 | Taking the Reins: Regaining Control | 102 |
7 | Family: Our Inheritance | 125 |
8 | Friends: We Pick 'Em | 146 |
9 | The Workplace: Making It User-Friendly | 165 |
10 | Support Groups: From Traditional to Offbeat | 181 |
11 | Humor: You Gotta Laugh... | 199 |
12 | Men: By, For, and About | 213 |
13 | Exercise: Making the Body Better | 238 |
14 | Recurrence: Come Again? | 251 |
15 | Religion: Bringing In the Big Gun | 270 |
16 | Pure Uplift: Wrapping It Up with a Bow | 278 |
Acknowledgments | 299 | |
List of Contributors | 303 | |
An Invitation from UPLIFT | 309 |