Authors: Rachel Naomi Remen
ISBN-13: 9781573228565, ISBN-10: 1573228567
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Penguin Group (USA)
Date Published: April 2001
Edition: Reprint
In My Grandfather's Blessing, Rachel Naomi Remen, a cancer physician and master storyteller, uses her luminous stories to remind us of the power of our kindness and the joy of being alive.
Dr. Remen's grandfather, an orthodox rabbi and scholar of the Kaballah, saw life as a web of connection and knew that everyone belong to him, and that he belonged to everyone. He taught her that blessing one another is what fills our emptiness and heals the loneliness in us all.
Life has given us many more blessings than we have allowed ourselves to receive. My Grandfather's Blessings is about how we can receive our blessings and share life's blessings with others. Through our blessing we will discover our own wholeness and the way to restore the hidden wholeness in the world.
As a child, Remen spent a good deal of time with her grandfather, a Kaballah scholar and orthodox rabbi. She loved their ritual of drinking hot tea and talking. My Grandfather's Blessings is both a homage to a loving grandparent and a gentle reminder to be kind. Remen's grandfather believed that all humans are connected. He taught his granddaughter that each of us is blessed by kindness and the joy of being alive. He believed that the purpose of humanity was and is to share our blessings with others. The author seemingly absorbed all of her grandfather's teachings and has used them to benefit her patients and community in her medical practice. She has been counseling patients with chronic and terminal illnesses for over 20 years and is currently a clinical professor of family and community medicine at the University of California at the San Francisco School of Medicine. Recommended for all libraries with large medical and self-help collections.--Pam Kingsbury, Florence, AL Copyright 2000 Cahners Business Information.
Introduction | 1 | |
I. | Receiving Your Blessings | |
Blessing | 22 | |
Wrestling with the Angel | 25 | |
The Shell Game | 28 | |
The Spice of Life | 31 | |
Lot's Wife | 36 | |
Having What You have | 39 | |
Letting Go | 41 | |
Owning | 43 | |
Keeping It Together | 46 | |
At the End of the Day | 50 | |
Remembering | 53 | |
Getting Real | 56 | |
What Matters | 63 | |
Teachers Everywhere | 66 | |
You Have to Be Present to Win | 68 | |
Knowing the Heart | 70 | |
Counting Your Chickens | 74 | |
I'Chiam! | 77 | |
II. | Becoming a Blessing | |
Getting It Right | 86 | |
The Gift | 88 | |
Being Used | 90 | |
Seeing the Buddha Seed | 93 | |
Simply Natural | 96 | |
All in the Family | 99 | |
Transmission | 101 | |
Bearing Witness | 103 | |
The Trajectory | 106 | |
Holding On to the Heart | 109 | |
Lost and Found | 112 | |
Finding New Eyes | 116 | |
Strengthening Life | 120 | |
The Friend | 124 | |
Wisdom | 127 | |
III. | Finding Strength, Taking Refuge | |
The Meeting Place | 137 | |
Pearls of Wisdom | 139 | |
The Way Through | 141 | |
Right Protection | 144 | |
From the Heart | 146 | |
Wholeness | 150 | |
The Link | 152 | |
Getting Clear | 155 | |
Being Fed | 158 | |
When Somebody Knows | 161 | |
A Place of Refuge | 164 | |
Coming Home | 166 | |
In the Gray Zone | 168 | |
Finding the Center | 170 | |
In the Beginning | 175 | |
Call Home | 177 | |
Broken | 181 | |
Promises, Promises | 188 | |
IV. | The Web of Blessings | |
Belonging | 197 | |
Lifeline | 201 | |
Learning to Serve | 205 | |
We Are Enough | 209 | |
Finding the Connection | 214 | |
Breathing In and Breathing Out | 216 | |
The Gift of Service | 218 | |
Fellow Travelers | 222 | |
The Laying On of Hands | 225 | |
Choosing Your Battles | 229 | |
Heaven and Hell | 232 | |
The Wise Man | 234 | |
How the World Is Made | 237 | |
One Little Candle | 239 | |
Greater Than the Sum of Its Parts | 242 | |
V. | Befriending Life | |
The Game | 251 | |
Knowing Life | 253 | |
Loving Life | 256 | |
Eggs | 258 | |
Finding the Way | 260 | |
When It Works | 263 | |
Habit | 267 | |
The Gift of New Eyes | 269 | |
Making a Difference | 272 | |
The Bottom Line | 276 | |
Crazy Clean | 279 | |
Integrity | 281 | |
The Path | 288 | |
A Matter of Life and Death | 290 | |
The Mirror | 293 | |
Who Serves? | 297 | |
Beyond the American Way | 300 | |
The Emperor's New Clothes | 303 | |
Forgiveness | 306 | |
The Gift of the Magi | 310 | |
Completion | 314 | |
Celebration | 317 | |
VI. | Restoring the World | |
Lineage | 329 | |
Beyond Words | 331 | |
The Final Patient | 333 | |
Mystery | 337 | |
A Question of Style | 339 | |
On the Cutting Edge | 343 | |
Mary | 346 | |
After Dark | 349 | |
The Thirty-six | 352 | |
Finding Safety | 356 | |
The Way It Is | 359 | |
The Presence of God | 363 | |
The Friction in the System | 365 | |
The Reward | 368 | |
The Real Story | 370 | |
Epilogue | 375 | |
Acknowledgments | 377 | |
Permissions | 381 |